Date: Sat, 01 Mar 2003 14:14:16 -0800
From: Mike H <frankpdx@hotmail.com>
Subject: Reflections on Things Past, Part 4

The usual cautions apply.  I have changed some of the names for privacy.
These tales, Pure Sex and College Reunion Surprise, are  true to the best of
my memory.

PURE SEX

       One thing that surprises and disturbs me is hearing about other
long-term couples who have lost their lust for each other.  It doesn't have
to happen.  Quite the opposite, I  believe that a long-term relationship
provides the potential for the most satisfying sex life if the partners keep
experimenting and exploring.  Sharing with other men can add spice to the
relationship but that is not everyone's cup of tea.  Whatever works, has to
work for both partners.

       On a particular occasion the sex can be magic.  Dave and I will
discover a new position during the final phase of a fuck that is better than
anything we have experienced before in the 100s of times we have done it
with each other.  Afterwards we are both in awe and will exclaim "Why didn't
we think of that before.  We are going to have to do this again."  But that
magic moment, the special way the key fits in the lock, does not repeat
itself.

       In December 1995 we had an exceptionally hot session that I put on
paper right after it happened and sent to one of my favorite magazines,
"FirstHand".  It was published, which was fun.  In part I wrote the piece
because few letters to the magazine were from couples in long term
relationships, especially from men in their 40s and 50s.   Here it is:


***********************************************

       My partner in life, Dave and I spend  weekends at our place in the
country, where we have acreage, an orchard and a vineyard.  It is a lot of
hard work, but a better work out than the gym.  Usually we knock off work in
the mid-afternoon on Saturdays to get it on with each other.  Last Saturday
was a good day for December, not raining, but it was cold with a pretty
strong wind.  I quit first and told Dave I was heading back to the house to
make a fire and set up the massage table.  "It is you turn on the table
today, guy," I said as I turned to the house.

      "I haven't forgotten," he said with a smile.

       I got the fire going in the living room and set the table up in our
bedroom, which has a beautiful view of the vineyard and valley below.  Dave
was still slaving away and I gave him a holler from the window that the time
had come for fun.  When he joined me in the bedroom his cheeks were rosy
from the cold and his clothes were cold to the touch.  We embraced and his
cold against my heat felt good for both of us.   I started to slowly undress
him, piece by piece, caressing his naked skin as it was exposed.  He started
to warm up and I embraced him naked to my fully clothed body.  Our tongues
entwined in a long slow kiss.  Dave's cock was standing out proud with its
very large head leaking pre-cum.  We pulled back from each other and we both
admired his beautiful cock as I smeared the pre-cum over its head.  Dave
gave a jerk back because the sensation was too intense for him, "That's
enough", he said.  "Its your turn." and he started to unwrap me, piece by
piece.

       I had less to take off.  Dave knelt to take my pants down and as they
slipped over my hips my cock sprung to attention.  When my pants were off
Dave gently rubbed his head up my thighs and let his buzz cut rub back and
forth over my balls.  I never knew a fresh buzz cut could feel so good.

       I wanted to get down to business but we had to clean up first.
"Let's hit the shower," and I led Dave to the bathroom.  We have a great
bathroom with a large shower, two heads and big enough for four.  I like a
clean butt to fuck and rim and part of our erotic ritual is preparing for
sex by me giving Dave his enema.   It gives a special sense of intimacy and
ownership to give a man his enema before you fuck him.  I filled Dave's
enema bulb and had him bend over the sink.  I lubed the tip of the nozzle
and tickled his anus with it, causing a moan of pleasure, before gently
slipping the nozzle up his butt.  I squeezed the bulb slowly and heard the
water flow into Dave.  He moaned, "That feels so good."

       His cock was swollen to the max and pre-cum hung in a long string
from its tip...at least 6 inches long with a clear drop of honey at the end
of the string.  The drop kept extending as I watched in fascination.  The
string finally broke and the drop hit the floor.  I refilled the enema bulb
and gave him another shot.

       I hit the shower first and after evacuating himself Dave joined me.
The hot water hitting us from opposite sides of the shower felt great.  I
was out and dried off first and was laying on the bed when Dave joined me.
He swallowed my cock to the root.  His warm mouth felt so good on my dick as
it slid down his throat.

       When I got in serious heat, I pulled Dave off me and took him to the
massage table.  I asked him to bend over it, feet on the floor, and I
started massaging his ass cheeks.  I spread them and he moaned.  His asshole
was still flawless after the 100s of times that I had fucked him.  I went to
my knees, sucked his balls and ran my tongue from his balls up his shaved
crack.  "Fuck me", he moaned.  I slowly pressed my tongue into his butt
hole, spreading his ass cheeks with my hands.  He opened for me and my
tongue explored deeper and deeper up his ass.  Dave kept opening until I was
in as far as my tongue could reach.  I felt the ring muscles of his anus
grip my tongue in periodic spasms as his breathing became heavier and more
moans of pleasure came from him.  Damn, I like what my tongue can do.  I
slowly stroked his cock, went back to flat tongue licking his hole and then
pointed tongue fucking.

       But I wanted more.  I wanted my cock up his ass.

       We stood and embraced.  I had been fantasizing about fucking Dave
while I sat on a chair and he sat on my cock facing me.  I asked him to come
with me to the straight backed chair and sit on my cock, but he wanted to
get on the massage table and have me fuck him face down for the initial
penetration, his favorite position for getting fucked and my favorite
position to fuck.  There was not much of a debate in my head and I gladly
yielded to his request.  The trouble with this position is that it feels so
good we often get no further before orgasm.

       Dave laid down and I climbed on the table.  My cock slipped into his
spit-slicked open hole.  His butt cheeks felt good against my groin as I
penetrated to the root of my cock.  It was a slow fuck as I held him in my
arms.  I then rose up so I could watch my cock slide in and out of his ass.

       After about fifteen minutes I knew that if we didn't change positions
I would come and never get Dave to the chair on my lap.  I pulled out and
said, "Let's go to the chair before I loose it."

       We were both staggering a bit as we got off the table.  Our bodies
had been totally engulfed by the energy of the fuck.  I got to the chair and
Dave came over, faced me and slowly sat on my cock.  I held him tight and
his hard cock rubbing my belly soon had it coated with pre-cum as he rocked
back and forth with my cock up his ass.  At one point Dave leaned back so
that we could both watch his cock and look at the precum that soaked our
middles.  I gave his cock two strokes and one shot of cum flew out the end
of it.  Dave let out a cry.  But it wasn't a real orgasm and we decided to
slow down.

      I led Dave back to the massage table and had him lay on his back with
his butt at the edge of the table.  I stood on the floor and slicked up my
cock with some more lube.  I found that my cock was at the perfect height as
I slipped it in Dave's ass.  I held his legs straight up against me,
massaging his thighs and upper legs.  They felt good against my body.  I
scissored Dave's legs apart, holding them by the ankles, so I could watch my
cock going in and out of his ass.

       He was getting more vocal, moaning with pleasure and tossing his head
from side to side.  I fucked him hard and fast, then slow and easy, pulling
my cock all the way out to the tip and then shoving it in to the hilt.  It
was a wonderful position and I was in lust.

       I knew we were both headed for orgasm.  Dave pulled his feet down and
I knew he wanted me to work on his toes.  I took off his right sock, over
his objections, but I wanted to suck his naked toes.  I also sucked his left
toes through his sock.  Footwork can drive him crazy.

       I pushed Dave's legs back so that his knees were almost touching his
tits.  His huge balls, cock and asshole were fully exposed as my cock slid
in and out of him.  Fuck, what a beautiful sight.

      Dave's balls got tight and his cock head swelled.  His balls started
disappearing into him and his moaning became a primal groan and howl as we
both headed over the edge.  He shot in buckets over his chest and stomach.
As he was shooting, I felt my cum surge, I pulled out, and my cum joined
his, both of us hosing down his front.

       It felt like someone had shoved a rod up my prick and had pulled the
cum out of me.

       I collapsed against Dave and we let the cum squish between us as we
kissed and moaned together.

       Damn.  Life is good.


**********************************

COLLEGE REUNION SURPRISE

       In 1997 we sold the place in the country, Dave sold his home in the
city and for the first time, after 16 years together we owned one house
together.  Traffic to the country had become too much of a fight.  The wine
country was becoming famous and more and more people were moving into the
area.

       When we were looking for our new home I knew the one we bought was
"it" the first time I walked in.  It was a large 1955 ranch on two levels,
with a daylight basement.  The lower level had a huge family/game room with
fireplace and three bedrooms.  When we descended the stairs to the
family/game room my first thought was, "What a great place for Body Electric
gatherings...this space will take 6 tables easy."  That turned out to be
true.

       In the summer of 1998 we decided to invite three of my best buddies
from college for a reunion.  It had been thirty-five years since we
graduated from Stanford and fifteen years since we last got together.  We
had four great days of sharing stories of our successes and tribulations in
life and love.  I had come out to my buddies the last time we got together,
but this was the first time they met Dave.  Dave's brother had been a
fraternity brother at Stanford, so they shared something of a bond with him.

      Early on the last afternoon of the visit two of my friends headed for
home. After they left my best friend, Bob, took a nap in his bedroom on the
lower level because he was taking a red-eye flight that night.  Dave and I
took a nap in our bedroom up stairs.  That evening we took Bob to dinner on
the way to the airport.  At dinner Bob asked me how I came out and when and
how I first had sex with a man.  I told him about my first time with my
brother-in-law Greg and how I had come out to my older sister (not the one
married to Greg!).  I was visiting my sister and her husband Larry at their
mansion in southern California and after too many drinks I spilled the
beans.  I told them I was having sex with Greg and that sex with men was
wonderful.  Larry started crying after I told my story.  I told Bob that I
did not think Larry was crying for me; I thought he was crying for himself
because he wanted a man and did not have the courage to make the move.
(Larry was a southern California hunk...looked a lot like Robert Redford and
could have had any man or woman he wanted.)

       Bob looked me in the ene and said, "I can relate to that."

       My mouth dropped open in shock.  "What do you mean by that?"

       Bob answered, "When I was trying to take a nap this afternoon I
couldn't sleep.  I lay there with a hard-on thinking about you and Dave and
wanting to have sex with you guys.  I have never had sex with a man but I
would like to try it with you guys if you would let me."

       You could have blown me away.  I laughed and said, "While we were
taking a nap this afternoon I couldn't sleep either.  I was laying there
with a hard-on dreaming about asking you to come to bed with us.  I wanted
to suck your big cock that I heard so much about in college."  Bob claimed
he had the biggest dick in his high school class and the word got around
among our friends at Stanford.

       What a wasted opportunity!!  By then it was too lake to take him to
bed.  We had to catch a plane.  Bob had a very visible bone running down the
leg of his pants on the way to the airport and a wet spot by the time we got
him to the terminal.  On the way we talked about what he wanted.   "Are you
sure it won't cause a problem with your relationship if we have sex
together," he asked, with real concern in his voice.  I could tell it
bothered him a lot, he was having a hard time understanding how we could be
free to share sex with him.

       "Heck, no guy.  We fool around with other men from time to time and
you would be something special for us.  Do you remember that time in our
sophomore year when I was getting something out of the closet in our bedroom
and you woke up and told me that  for a second you thought I was a woman
standing on the chair reaching into the closet, and you almost jumped me?  I
do.  At the time I thought, 'yes I want that, but you are going to have to
use some vaseline.'  I often wonder what would have happened if I had said
that to you.  But I didn't really understand that I wanted sex with you or
any other man."

       "I probably would have punched you out if you had said somenting like
that," he answered.

        Dave chimed in, "It is not going to be a problem at all."

        I added, "It would be an honor to take your virginity," giving Bob a
poke in the shoulder.

        I had never bedded a virgin man and to bed my best buddy from a
special chapter in my life, who had filled me with stories of his wild  sex
life when I was a young virgin, was a dream come true.

       We agreed that Bob would have to return for another visit so that we
could take a long weekend teaching him everything there was to know about
mansex.

       But you will have to wait for that chapter.  It was worth the wait fr
us!!

                         Mike