Message-ID: <060302Z16041995@anon.penet.fi>
Newsgroups: alt.sex.intergen
From: an164453@anon.penet.fi
X-Anonymously-To: alt.sex.intergen
Organization: Anonymous contact service
Reply-To: an164453@anon.penet.fi
Date: Sun, 16 Apr 1995 05:57:34 UTC
Subject: Re. Young boys as seducers (fwd)
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On occasions, it is definitely the boy who takes the initiative in 
starting something sexual with an adult.  This really happened to me 
about 35 years ago.

As a young man in my 20s I had a special friendship with a 10-year-old 
boy in a group I directed.  We had known each other since he started 
school. He was from a broken home but his mother had recently remarried 
at this time.  We were good friends and there had been nothing intimate 
between us.  He had stayed over at my house on occasions, slept with me 
but nothing else -- and he said to me several times, "I wish you was my 
daddy!"  So did I.

On this particular summer I was his camp counselor and therefore he spent 
the weekend in my cabin.  One night he expressed the wish to crawl into 
my bunk with me.  I had no qualms about this, since I knew the family well.

I became very startled soon after we got under the covers when he reached 
over, put his left arm on my chest, then slid his hand down inside my 
shorts and began to masturbate me.  I had no idea he even knew how to do 
this. I could have handled it in a number of ways such as brushing his 
hand aside or turning over.  But at this point I realized he was doing 
something he wanted to do.  He was obviously not experienced, so I 
reached for his hand and without a word showed him how to make long 
strokes which was very exciting for me.  He continued and brought me to 
orgasm in a short time.

I then reached toward him. He immediately pulled down his underwear, and 
I could immediately feel his very erect little penis with a drop of 
moisture on the tip.  I gently massaged him, and although he did not 
ejaculate, he had a dry orgasm. We then went to sleep.

I never spoke to him about it the next day.  We showered together without 
any conversation on what had happened, and the next night he crawled in 
and we had an identical experience. He lay on top of me and we embraced.

I have thought about this many times since then and realize that although 
it could be called a "seduction," it was also his way of trying to show 
affection. There was a mutual love there.  This was the last time we ever 
slept together, probably because I had mixed feelings about what had 
happened. Nevertheless we remained friends as long as I lived in that 
area.  He finally went off and joined the military, and when I was back 
there some 9 years later he made a point of coming to see me.  We never 
talked about that experience, but the feeling was there.  I said, "You 
were one of my favorite persons," and he replied, "Yes, I know."


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