Date: Sun, 3 Oct 2004 21:50:50 -0700 (PDT) From: Thomas-Alexander Kind <thomasalexander_kind@yahoo.com> Subject: Mihai-03 'The truth is out there.!' And now here as well, as this is true and not all that long ago...or maybe too long ago.! No disclaimer, as the ones that hold the power do what they want anyhow. Everybody else does not need one. Storycode:M/b Mihai-03 NOTHING NEW ON THE EASTERN FRONT... The great adventure of agreeing to drive a chase-vehicle for a good friend on a quest of flying a micro-light airplane from airfield to airfield had taken me to the East,... to the large city beyond the mountains in the plains carved out by the large river that went to a Black Sea. In an orange VW-Camping-Bus with the incredible flying machine on a tow-trailer behind, we were following the route of the Habsburg kings, the expanding Austrian-Hungarian Empire,... into that part of the map of the known world at the time, which used to be marked with the customary: THERE BE DRAGONS.! The term of the ancient cartographers for lands unknown. * After summer-adventures that had brought me to believe that maybe my dreams could become reality here,( some other time ...) we had come back and found a place to live. Shared a 2- bedroom flat in an apartment-block not far from the great square in the center of the city. Summer had passed into the beginning of winter. My daring friend had found companionship of young local boys. Frightened me had not. Had walked the streets and squares, filed the faces and the places of the street boys in my mind... had placed money in small grubby hands but resisted the asking eyes. Had haunted the center of town, the late night cafés, walked in the shadows again and watched the boys descend into the canals below the city for the night. Had seen the effects of the aero-lacque in the plastic bags, held against mouth and nose and inhaled, on them. Had walked by the same 2 little boys, maybe 9 or 10 years old, sleeping on the subway-grille, arms wrapped around each other, next to the entrance of The Hilton Hotel, too many nights. Had seen the 'invisible' boys play and chase each other. Had let more than one talk me into giving more than needed with those big eyes and soft melodic words in the language I hardly knew enough words to fend for myself. Had walked home alone because I was too scared of the reality of this place. The reality of the possibility. The reality of myself. Had too much war left in my head. A few too many close calls with life, lately. * The flat was the place to come back to when business demanded from us to be away in other parts of the world for a while, so at times we were on our own there for weeks or even months. Good to find a separate peace for myself, finally able to write again, to learn to live with myself. To come to terms with the fact that I had been looking for the same beggar-boy for some weeks. I had found him one night next to my open car window, thrusting his open hand and open smile at me. 10 maybe 11 years old with a mop of dirt-blond hair, small and skinny even in the big dirty jacket he was wearing. Next night, same ritual. Except, he remembered my car and his hand was in my face the minute I stopped at the roundabout. Next night, he simply walked up, smiled and asked to come along,... waiting for me to open the door. I hesitated ... too much thinking, too sacred,... and the lights changed, horns being sounded...people yelling...policemen looking. Frightened, I drove away and never saw him again, of course..! * Relating the story to my friend upon his arrival back in town and my leaving for a few weeks,... I guess I offered a challenge. He realized the possibilities and invited them back to the flat. So when I returned, there were a couple of street boys coming for the night with regularity. This became our life with the 'mice'. * Our flat is up 2 flights of stairs... a semi-darkness even during the day. This is a good thing. Street-boys are not welcome in any self-respecting Block. They may be... what curse this would be... 'Gypsies'.! So it is a minefield of sorts, the boys are walking every night. They are to arrive at 9pm... but often are early,... winter is coming with cold and wet. Are to ring the entry bell... we buzz them in and than open the apartment door a crack...so they can sneak in sliding through the smallest space possible between doorframe and door. * Mihai and Daniel are shedding their clothes in the hall. That strange transformation from plump, puffed up small figures with small faces peering from hats and jackets,...to very skinny boys in sweaters and pants,...t-shirts and more pants that were beneath the ones before,...undershirt and underpants,...skin,..! It is something like pain I feel, when I watch them,...their slightly lopsided smiles,...not really embarrassed by their nakedness, no, more by the eyes that see the hunger and the desperate moves. The bones beneath the skin. They know I do not really want to look at them,...but also know I will never be able to turn away,...the fascination of their sublime grace in all the need that has emaciated their bodies. No,...their bellies are not swollen,...this is not Biafra or Rwanda...but nevertheless..! I cannot turn away,...watch as Mihai skips naked from the hall into the bathroom,... where the bathwater steams..! And Daniel,...graceful in his adolescent naked stride, comes close, smiles up at me and takes the sweat-pants and top that will cover him and wrap his body in a layer of warmth as he curls up on the sofa. Proudly holding the remote-control for the TV,...although it always gets handed off to Mihai in the end, who hides it close to his body in hopes for another cartoon. * Mihai in the bathtub,...scrubbing his feet,... another dip into the warm water under the shower,... tentatively fingering the bath-toys. I motion to him to stand up and he does without hesitation... he knows the drill... I lather my hands and wash him from top to bottom...yes that too,... before rinsing him off with the hand shower. Than shampoo on his head... while he is winding up the toy-boat. Rinse and one more time... he is talking to Rubber-Ducky..! Than sighs as he slides completely under the now dirty bubbly water. Pushes up his penis through the bubbles and bursts into giggles under water which makes him surface really fast. Standing in the tub... as I pull the plug and the water drains away,...slick, smiling, skinny..! Funny boy..! I hand him the towel. Shiny and new,...a small boy,...13 years old,. looks like 10 and thin at that. My red sweatpants are miles to big on him,... the blue top comes to his knees. * The boys are eating at the table in the small kitchen. They never, ever forget to say 'thank you', in English..! Daniel throws the cross after the meal they inhale. In my minds eye I see him serving at an orthodox mass, in one of those old, small, square churches, full of Icons, Gold and candles. All incense and innocence, chants and hope of salvation from what hurts. His eyes are soft,... dark,...liquid..! He walks past me towards the bathroom. Smiles a tentative smile, sheds what clothes him and slides into the foam that covers the water in the tub. Only his smiling face remains,...framed by bubbles. * They come from the street and stay the night. Shed the skins they wear on the outside. Scrub off the dirt that has settled into their pores from the grime of this large city. Eat to fill the hunger that has traveled with them all day long. Huddle in the corner of the sofa,... close and trading soft almost whispered words in the melodic language of this people. Squabble as boys will over the remote-control or the next cigarette,...but tentative only. Always one eye towards us,... making sure that their grace has not worn off,... that their welcome has not worn out. Are quiet like mice,...mostly. * We have been told that one does not keep boys like these too long in the morning either..! So it is early mornings for the boys...and myself. I am not a morning person,... but my friend is-due to years in the military, and so it works out. I stare with wonderment at the boys, as they sit on the stools in the small kitchen their glasses with milk in front of them. Am holding myself upright by my coffee cup, as they, all sleepyheads and tousled hair, are looking wide-eyed at the feast of toast, bacon and eggs that is being placed in front of them. The kitchen is all warm and cozy like,... smelling of food and coffee, the boys smell of bubble-bath and apricot shampoo. Maybe this is all a dream.?! It is 6:30 in the morning, my friend is annoyingly chipper, and the mice are ravenous. Another 'thank you' from both,... a kiss for my friend, in whose bed they slept all night.?! Since one of the 'luxuries' the apartment has to offer, is a washing-machine, they get to put on clean clothes, dried over the radiators all night. Both smell their underpants and socks, and smile to each other. Giggle and stand in the middle of the living room dropping the sweatpants and tops we keep for them here. Slim naked boys, Daniel, the older one at 14, a little more muscled, round butt and the proud owner of 3 hairs each side of his penis... bathroom secrets we trade. Mihai,... well, his ribs can be counted and he is not slim but too often hungry I would guess. Not so pretty, much too thin and small. I learn much later that he does not beg at all... so often goes hungry. * So this then becomes the secret word when we talk about them: 'mice'. Mice,... coming into the house at night, after roaming the streets during the day, stealing, begging, hiding, making do,....surviving..! More in Mihai-04