Date: Mon, 19 Oct 2015 23:27:47 -0500
From: Tom <tomthedom80@gmail.com>
Subject: Tom the Dom: Part 5

Author's Note:

I'm Tom, and the following is a true story about a guy I hooked up with
from Craigslist.  I plan on writing several stories about my sexual
experiences.  Most of the stories will be about guys I met on Craigslist
over the last several months.  To preserve anonymity and increase
readability, some details will be changed, but the stories themselves will
be true.

In Part 3, I invited readers to vote on which story I should write next.
Stories 4 and 5 received the most votes, so #5 is below and I plan to write
#4 next.  If you have an opinion about what I should write after these two,
let me know.  You can email me at TomTheDom80@gmail.com to vote, ask
questions, or provide constructive feedback.  I've also started responding
to questions and comments I've received from readers and posting other
stuff on Tumblr.  Follow me at tomthedom80.tumblr.com.

Finally, thanks to all the doms, subs, and vers guys who have emailed me.
Keep sending the hot pics, links to your favorite videos, and stories about
your own experiences.  Hearing from all of you has encouraged me to spend
as much of my free time as possible writing these stories.

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Part 5: The Unacceptable Sub and the Backup Cocksucker

I often post ads on CL when I'm traveling for work.  For one thing, it's
when I typically have the most free time.  I don't have to worry about
getting home by a certain time to make the wife happy or read the kids
bedtime stories.  I also generally have trouble sleeping in hotels, so I
don't mind staying up late to hook up since I'm not going to be falling
asleep anyway.

The events in this story happened last month when I was in San Antonio for
a couple days.  I posted the ad below when I got back to my hotel room the
first night of my trip.

———— Title: Dom guy needs cocksucker

You: Submissive guy who likes a man to take control, put you on your knees,
and talk dirty while he uses your mouth.

Me: Married white bear.  Clean cut, normal/sane.  I act straight and I'm a
nice guy in public.  No one would ever guess that I enjoy dominating
cocksuckers behind closed doors.  Love to see a boy on his knees looking up
at me while I fuck his mouth and shoot a big load.  I don't reciprocate.

Can host or travel.  Send stats/pics for response.

————

This ad didn't do as well in San Antonio as it usually does in Dallas,
which isn't a surprise since there are so many more people in the DFW area.
However, I still got emails from a total of 27 applicants over two days
before I deleted the ad.

After receiving their initial emails, I identified about half the guys as
time wasters or people I didn't care to meet and either didn't respond to
them or politely told them I wasn't interested, depending on how polite and
informative their own emails were.  A tip for you subs trying to convince a
dom to meet you.  Do NOT send an email asking me for my stats and pic
without at least telling me your own complete stats.  Attaching a pic is
also appreciated.  If you don't give me any information about yourself, I
will assume you are afraid to tell me for some reason or that you are
incapable of following basic instructions.  In either case, I'm not
interested and will ignore your email.

Also, don't be embarrassed about sharing your true stats/pics.  A lot of
subs are older or overweight, and I'm going to see you eventually if you
convince me to meet.  If you aren't my type, it's better to find that out
before I'm standing at your door.  If I get your picture or other
information about you in an email and don't think we're a match, I'll
respectfully tell you.  If you open the door and I see that you lied to me,
I'm going to be pissed off and won't be respectful.  In fact, I've come up
with a great way to deal with subs like that.

A few weeks ago, a local sub in Dallas responded to one of my ads and
convinced me to go over to his house.  When he opened the door, I saw that
he'd sent a picture from about 15 years ago.  He was still fairly
attractive in person for an older guy (I'd guess he was around 50), but I
was pissed off because he lied to me.  I told him I was either going to
leave immediately or I'd stick around and punish him for lying.  He chose
punishment, so I spanked his ass so hard with my belt I could see the
bruises forming before I was even finished.

The whole time I was spanking him, he was crying, apologizing, and thanking
me for staying.  When I decided he'd had enough, I put my belt back on and
headed for the door.  He asked where I was going.  I told him I was
leaving.  He cried and said I had punished him for that.  He actually
thought I was still going to let him suck my dick after he lied to me and
lured me to his house with a false picture.  Fucking moron.

"Yes," I explained to him as though talking to a small child, "I spanked
you for lying, but the rest of your punishment is that you don't get my
cock.  If you happen to respond to one of my ads in the future and you're
honest, I'll consider letting you blow me."

I walked out the door while he was still bent over the arm of his couch
crying.  It was so much fun, I practically skipped down the sidewalk to my
car.  I decided I'd deal with all liars like this in the future.  It lets
me get out my anger and frustration at having my time wasted, and hopefully
it also teaches the cocksucker to tell the truth to men he hopes to serve.

Two rules you should take away from this subs.  1) In your first
communication, give your potential alpha enough information to let him
decide if he wants your services.  2) Never lie to convince a dom to meet
you.  If he's a true dom, he isn't going to tolerate your lies.  You'll be
punished and won't get to serve him anyway.

One more thing to keep in mind, your appearance isn't the only thing I
consider when I choose a sub.  I usually get a lot of responses when I post
ads.  Send an email that catches my attention.  Show me you have a good
personality, tell me your fantasy, or give me a list of things you'd like
to try.  Be creative.  You don't even have to write a special response for
me.  If you're on CL a lot, work on writing a good introductory email that
you can send to every dom that interests you.  Nothing too long.  I don't
want two pages of information about you before we even meet, but I
appreciate receiving an email with 3 or 4 sentences that include a physical
description and some of information about yourself/what you are interested
in sexually.  I've turned down the hottest sub to respond to a particular
ad in favor of the most creative one more than once.

Getting back on topic, I had about half a dozen real possibilities in
response to my San Antonio ad after eliminating the time wasters and guys I
wasn't interested in after I saw their first email.  I responded to all of
them with some standard questions to determine compatibility ad my level of
interest in each.  If they didn't list their own stats or attach a picture,
I asked for those.  With an ad like this, I also typically ask what a sub
enjoys doing most to serve a dom.

You wouldn't believe the responses I get to this second question.  All of
you subs should think for a minute about how you would respond, and email
me the answer.  I'll post the responses I like best on Tumblr without
identifying who sent them (unless you tell me you don't want to be
anonymous).

Some subs give thoughtful answers: "I like giving up my mouth completely so
a man can use it to get off."  "I squeeze his cock with my ass to milk the
cum out and make sure my hole is extra tight to give him more pleasure."
"Being made to lick his ass and feet."  "I most like using my mouth and
tongue to clean his dick after I make him cum."

Others are unimaginative: "I like to suck dick."  "I want to get fucked."

Still others focus on what gives them pleasure as subs: "I really get off
on having a dom guy slap me and fuck my mouth hard."  "Getting fucked raw
and rough makes me so horny."

There's one answer I get more often than any other.  It isn't a bad answer,
but I've come to dislike it because it's so common and it requires me to
ask a follow up question.  Far too many subs say something like, "My
favorite thing to do is whatever you like best."  Sigh.  Of course it is.
Making alphas happy is what you were made for.  However, I'm obviously
asking this question to find out something about you.  I feel like Eddie
Murphy at the beginning of Coming to America when he's interviewing the
woman chosen for his arranged marriage after he's told she has been taught
since birth to do whatever he says.  "Hop on one foot.  Bark like a dog."
Of course I want obedience from a sub and making me happy should naturally
make you happy, but I also want you to have thoughts and ideas of your own
especially when I ask you for them.

When a sub says he likes whatever I like best, I tell him that's a great
answer for a slave, but I want to know what he really enjoys doing to find
out how compatible we are.  Does he like kink?  Does he want to be tied up
or spanked?  Does he like to bottom or only sucking cock?  If he had his
choice of doing anything he wanted with a dom, what would that be?

San Antonio subs who responded to my ad weren't very creative, so I ended
up choosing the one with the best face pic.  I don't provide face pics
myself and only show limited body pics (ones that don't show scars or other
features that would allow my wife to easily identify me).  I also don't
require guys to send me face pics and sometimes not any pics before I meet
them if they tell me their complete stats.  In those cases, I tell the guy
that I may decide when we meet that we aren't a match and leave immediately
and that he can tell me the same with no hard feelings.  Even so, it is
nice to see a face pic if a guy doesn't mind sharing one.  If I'm going to
be plunging my cock into a boy's mouth, I like to see what I'm going to be
working with before we meet if possible.

The sub I ended up picking was named Lewis.  He told me he was 28, white
but very tan, light brown hair, green eyes, 5'10", and 185 pounds.  He
texted me a couple more face pics (selfies he was taking on his phone)
while he was driving to my hotel.  I really liked his slightly curly hair
and green eyes.  He has the kind of hair a dom can really dig his fingers
into while fucking a sub's face.

I had been watching straight porn while chatting with subs and trying to
pick someone to meet and left it running when Lewis got to my room.  I
moved my laptop so I could continue watching and told Lewis to get on his
knees in front of the room's more comfortable chair.  He followed my
directions and then put his hands behind his back while looking up at me.
I smiled down at him and started to pull my gym shorts down.

I had a semi from watching porn for the last hour, and it didn't take long
for Lewis to get me fully hard.  He didn't have great cock sucking skills,
but I figured he was good enough to make me cum.

I started out running my fingers through the soft curls of his hair.  I
can't explain what it is, but there's just something about that type of
hair that I've always found super sexy.  It's the kind of hair that seems
straight when it's cut short but ends in curls when it gets a couple inches
long.  Not super curly, but those big soft curls that you tend to find more
often in women's hair than men's.

While playing with Lewis's hair, I started slowly rocking my hips forward
and back, sliding my dick in and out of his mouth.

"Yeah boy.  I love seeing you on your knees like this, playing with your
hair while I use your mouth.  I've been sitting here thinking about fucking
a nice mouth like yours all night while watching chicks get fucked on my
computer."

As I've explained before, dirty talk doesn't have to be true, but I do try
to make it true whenever possible.  That's especially the case if I'm going
to give constructive criticism.  I don't want to tell a guy his mouth feels
better than any other mouth I've ever fucked and then tell him 30 seconds
later that he needs to change how he's working on my cock.  With Lewis, I
knew immediately that I was going to have to give him some direction.

"Use your tongue more to work my cock, boy, and don't suck quite so hard.
I want to feel you slurping on my dick but if you do it too hard I'm never
going to cum."

I'm curious as to whether other dudes like having their dicks sucked really
hard.  It's okay for a few strokes, but I'll go soft if a sub does it too
long.  It seems like a lot of subs go for heavy suction, and I'm not sure
what doms are telling them that's a good thing.

Doms, don't let cocksuckers get away with giving you a shitty blowjob.  If
you're too afraid to speak up and tell him what feels good or how to give
better head, you aren't really a dom.

And here's another free tip for you subs.  Using more suction isn't the
same thing as making your mouth tight for a dom to fuck it.  Pressing your
tongue firmly against my cock so I'm sliding along it and the roof of your
mouth creates a nice tight fuckhole for me.  Sucking extra hard pulls the
foreskin forward so that it covers up the most sensitive areas around the
corona.  It deprives those sensitive areas of the pleasure they receive
from the softness of a nice velvety mouth.  It also makes the head more
sensitive so that any inadvertent contact with a tooth hurts more.

Lewis wasn't great at following directions.  He seemed to take things too
literally.  He started acting like he was actually trying to slurp on my
dick, which would have felt pretty good if he had kept his jaws wide while
doing it.  Instead, he closed his mouth too much and felt like he was
trying to bite my cock while he suckled on it.

"Watch your teeth, damn it!  You need to keep your jaws open and lips
closed.  If you bite me again, I'm going to slap you."

I ended up having to slap Lewis twice.  The first time I only hit him a
little hard.  The second time was a solid smack across the cheek that
turned it bright red.

"I told you not to bite me cocksucker.  This isn't working.  I'm not sure
I'll be able to cum with you after all."

He looked up at me and said, "I promise I won't bite you again.  I'm just
trying to make you happy.  I'll keep my mouth open and use my tongue like
you said."

I paused for a second.  "Alright," I finally told him.  "This is your last
chance.  Think about what makes your dick feel good when you jack off and
try to do the same thing with your mouth to please me."

Lewis started slowly bobbing up and down on my dick.  He used his tongue a
lot to lick around, and I was actually starting to get into it.

"Yeah baby.  That's the way to do it.  Your mouth feels so soft and hot and
wet now.  That tongue feels great sliding up and down my shaft.  Keep doing
it just like that bitch."

Since he was finally getting some positive feedback, Lewis seemed to settle
into a good rhythm.  At one point he got a little too excited and started
going up and down faster than he could while maintaining good control of
his mouth.  He ended up running one of his back molars into my cockhead.

"Ouch!"  Slap.  "Slow down and watch the fucking teeth cocksucker.  Don't
go any faster than you can control.  My dick needs to slide right into the
middle of your mouth every fucking time.  You make a lot of errors for a
cocksucker."

I thought about kicking Lewis out right then, but he had been doing pretty
good before he got overly excited.  Besides, I was super horny after
watching porn and getting half a blow job, so I decided to stick with it.

Lewis got back into a good rhythm, and I got a firmer grip on his head to
keep him at the pace I wanted to go.  After I few more minutes, I was
almost ready to cum.

 "Fuck boy.  You're getting me so close.  I've got a huge load.  I can't
wait to feed it all to you."

Lewis shook his head a little.

"Why are you shaking your head?  You don't want my cum?"

Lewis pulled his mouth off my dick and said, "I don't swallow."

Excuse me?  You don't swallow?  I couldn't remember exactly what I'd put in
my ad.  Was it unclear?  Didn't I say something about fucking a mouth until
I drop my load in it?

I decided I didn't really care if he swallowed as long as I got to cum
where I wanted, so I said, "That's fine.  You can spit it out after I'm
done."

He looked at me like I was crazy.  "I really don't like cum in my mouth,"
he responded.

I asked him, "Where do you expect me to cum?"

"I don't know.  You can cum on my face if you want."

While I tried to figure out how to respond, he went back to licking my dick
and sucking on it a little.  Then he pulled off, grabbed it with his hand,
started jacking me off, and said for me to let him know when I was getting
close.  That insolence finally brought me to my senses.

"Nah, that's okay," I said.  I pushed his hand away and started to stand up
from the chair.

"What do you mean?"

"I mean that I really wanted a blowjob, not a hand job.  I expected to cum
in your mouth.  If I wanted to jack off, I could do that myself watching
porn," I explained pointing at the computer screen.

He looked stunned and asked, "Are you serious?"

"Yes.  I didn't post an ad for a hand job.  I wanted to cum in a nice warm
mouth.  If you aren't okay with that, then I can jack myself off better
than you were doing it."

I picked up my underwear and shorts and started to put them back on.

"You're actually serious?"

"Absolutely.  I have no more use for you.  I wanted a real cocksucker.  If
you refuse to swallow or even let a man cum in your mouth, you don't
qualify.  It's time for you to go."

Lewis awkwardly got to his feet and said, "I can't believe you're really
kicking me out."

"And I can't believe a self-proclaimed cocksucker doesn't like having cum
in his mouth.  What do you think happens when you suck a dick?"

Lewis looked baffled and didn't answer.  I escorted him to the door, and as
soon as he was gone, I started laughing out loud to myself.  The look on
his face had been truly priceless.  It was hilarious.  I couldn't help but
laugh.

I'm not normally a mean or cruel person.  I'm courteous and treat people
with respect 95% of the time.  Even when I'm using a submissive bitch, I
respect his limits and try to make sure he's having a fun time.  I never
try to actually hurt a sub except when he tells me he likes pain or if he
lies to me.

When Lewis told me he doesn't like cum in his mouth, I felt like he had
misrepresented himself to me, and I didn't mind laughing at his shocked
expression when I kicked him out of my room.  It was obvious no other alpha
had ever put him in his place, which made it even funnier.

Now I had a dilemma.  It was starting to get late, but I still needed to
cum.  Fortunately, one of the guys I'd emailed with earlier, Nick, told me
doesn't get off work until 10 p.m.  I'd written him off because I wanted to
meet someone earlier than 11:00, but I kept him in reserve as a backup
plan.  I was glad I had.

Nick described himself as a 24 year old gay black "boi" who likes to suck
cock.  He said he is 5'7", 130 lbs, and has "perfect lips for sucking
dick."  He sent me a full body pic that showed his face when I emailed with
him earlier.  He was a cute kid.

I had a little time to kill, so I took a shower and then emailed Nick a few
minutes after 10.

"You want me to come over?"

After a couple of minutes, he answered, "Yes.  Would like to suck that dick
of yours."

I like to play hard to get sometimes, so I told him, "It's pretty late.
Are you worth it?"

"I understand if you don't want to come over tonight, but I want to taste
your cock sir."

I wasn't going to make the same mistake I had with Lewis.  I was going to
make sure this cocksucker knew exactly what was in store for him before I
left my hotel room and drove 20 minutes to see this kid.

"If I come over, I'm going to cum in your mouth and might want to shoot
twice.  I'm not pulling out until I'm totally finished using you.  Got it?
Send address if you agree to those terms."

Nick quickly responded with his address.

A few minutes later, I was out the door and in my rental car.  Nick's house
was on the north side of the city, so it was about 10:45 when I finally
arrived.  He led me back to his bedroom, and I told him to get on his knees
while I started to unfasten by belt.  It was past time for me to cum, and I
was in no mood to waste time.  I unbuckled and unzipped my pants while Nick
looked longingly at my crotch.

"You ready for this cock?" I asked.

Nick licked his lips and said, "Yes, sir."

I pulled down my underwear and let my dick flop out in front of Nick's
face.

"Get to it, cocksucker."

Nick immediately opened his mouth wide and put my whole dick in his mouth.
I thought, "Fuck yeah, this kid is much better than Lewis."

Nick didn't have to be told what to do.  He started stroking my cock with
his tongue while it was buried in his mouth, and he was sucking me lightly
to get me hard.

"Good boy.  Get me nice and hard so I can fuck that mouth and give you what
you need."

Nick moaned in response.  I've never met a sub who doesn't get off on dirty
talk.  Even Lewis liked it.  I just wished I hadn't wasted the effort on
him.

Nick started working his mouth up and down my shaft as my dick grew stiff.
When I get a really good cocksucker like Nick, I usually like to take my
time.  It's fun to use his mouth to edge myself.  Get close to cumming,
pull out for a minute, then go back to fucking the soft sweet mouth.  Or if
I'm sitting back and he's doing most of the work, I can relax and get a
nice leisurely blowjob while patting him on the head and telling him what a
great cocksucker he is.  However, tonight I wanted to cum before it got too
much later.

Once I was hard, I grabbed hold of Nick's head and started fucking his
mouth hard.  He had no trouble keeping up with the pace.

"Fuck yeah.  You're such a good cocksucker.  It's so nice to find a boy who
can take care of my cock while I use his mouth like this.  I'm going to
keep fucking you just like this until I blow."

Nick kept licking my cock, sucking, and moaning his agreement.  He was
eager to eat my load, and it showed.  His eagerness actually reminded me
how pissed off I was at Lewis (that ungrateful bitch), which made me even
more aggressive.  I started yanking his head into my groin was I thrust
forward into his mouth over and over again.

"I'm going to fuck your face as hard as I want boy.  I only came over here
because you agreed I could use your mouth until I was completely finished
with it and that's what I'm going to do.  Yeah, bitch.  Take that cock all
the way.  Do your job, cocksucker.  Make me feel good."

About five minutes of this was all I could take before I was ready to
explode.  I usually tell guys when I'm about to cum in their mouths so
they're ready to swallow, but I decided this kid was an expert and didn't
need any warning.

"I'm working up a nice big load of cream for you.  I hope you're hungry."

He moaned again.

"I'm not even going to tell you before I shoot it.  I'm just going to keep
hold of your head, shove my cock all the way in, and hold you there until
you milk every fucking drop out of my balls."

More moans of agreement.  Why can't all cocksuckers be like this?

Within 30 seconds of telling Nick I was going to fill his mouth up without
warning, I felt myself passing the point of no return.  I kept up the same
pace, fucking his face hard while grabbing his head with both hands for a
few more strokes.  When I felt the cum starting to shoot through my shaft,
I pushed my cock all the way in and held Nick's head down as hard as I
could.  I must have held him like that a good 30 seconds while I spurted
rope after rope of cum into him.

After I was finished, I started slowly fucking Nick's mouth again.

I told him, "Use your tongue to get me good and clean.  Your job isn't
finished until I pull my cock out and tell you I'm done with your mouth."

I kept sliding my cock in and out of Nick's mouth and enjoying the sweet
intensity of post-orgasm head for two or three minutes before pulling out.
I told Nick he could get off his knees as I pulled up my underwear, buckled
my pants, and fastened my belt.

"Good job, cocksucker."

Nick thanked me as he walked me to the door.

"Send me your email address or phone number and I'll get in touch when I'm
back in town."

"Yes, sir.  I'd like that."

"Next time, maybe we'll have more time and you can really show me how
skilled you are with that mouth."

Nick smiled, "Yes, sir.  I'm looking forward to it already.  I'll work hard
to make sure you leave very happy."

"I know you will.  You're a good sub," I said and thought to myself, "Not
like that dumb fuck time waster Lewis."