Date: Sat, 6 Mar 2010 16:35:38 +1100
From: The Pin <lawrencebradman@gmail.com>
Subject: School preparations Part 3

Well that was one important lesson out of the way, now he knew that no
matter how much you enjoyed sex with other boys in private, you must keep
it private for the boy who laid moaning beneath you the night before, could
in the harsh light of day become a pillar of respectability.  Less than a
week to go and my son would be off to boarding school, so what else was
there?  Thoughtfully I took stock and yes there were a couple of things I
could share with him, I searched around and came up with a bottle of light
massage oil, non greasy stuff and a joy to use.  The boy was home, so I got
hold of some towels too then went in search of him.  He was unusually
quiet...and of course, no wonder for lying on his bed he held up one of
those glossy little magazines, flies undone he was busily working away.  I
cleared my throat, a guilty start that seeing it was me he relaxed and
grinned sheepishly

"Wow Dad, I didn't know you could do some of these things even - this one,
see the boy being lifted way up and the man, he's doing him like that, oooh
Dad!"

He'd raided my stock obviously but seeing him already aroused, I knew it
would make the next bit easier so without saying anything I settled beside
him and began to lightly stroke his penis.  Conversationally I began

"Yes, the magazines are great to have around, just make sure that no one
traces them back to you though.  There'll be lots and lots of sex too
.. question is - what sort do you want?"

He looked puzzled and I continued

"Well, I know for a fact that there's the quick grope, usually in a dark
corner, nothing eventuates and no one is satisfied, a bit of fun, that's
all.  Then there's what I call the 'opportunistic' variety, you and someone
else of like mind find yourselves alone somewhere and for only a limited
time...in the bike shed, squash courts, whatever and this is the commonest
sort, in a rush you go for it, hurried masturbation without even taking
your pants down or if you're lucky a quick fuck, an in and out wham bam.
Well, fun yes but...it has its problems too, do you want to become known as
a "Tart"?  They may call it something else now but essentially it means
that senior boys in particular who are aware of your willingness to do it
with anyone anywhere will regard it as their right to take you into some
quiet corner whenever they please...they'll enjoy it OK, no question...but
they'll also despise you, even though they too are implicated, you get the
reputation - not they."

The boy was started to look depressed, time to make it more upbeat.

"Now, there's a solution to this of course...here let me help you take
those pants off..now your shirt..just lie back and we'll put these towels
down and there, try this stuff, smooth isn't it and doesn't get all
sticky..some on top, nipples...now down below..thighs...turn over a bit and
let me reach, oh sexy, you look sexy too lovely, slippery - I'll give you
some of this to take with you..just wait ...there now I can join you.  The
secret is, choose your partner carefully, you can usually tell by the way
he looks at you, he may not even be a friend, actually most aren't - don't
know why - but once you've made a choice, test it..and this is when a grope
is justified.  If you're groping him and he starts to feel you up...make an
arrangement, an appointment for later, but ALWAYS make sure you have
several hours available, NEVER rush things which is why after lights out is
usually best..the grope is only for exploratory purposes!"

My son was listening intently as I continued

When you do get together, watch for signs, if he undresses first - he's
likely to be sexually aggressive, nothing to be scared of but something to
be kept in mind and used.  If he stands there and lets you undress him,
he's passive...and in my experience this can be a thrilling experience, for
instances slowly pulling on his pyjama cord and watching as the garment
slowly sinks to his ankles - believe me, that's a real turn on and for both
of you!  OK, so you're both undressed - like us you have a bed so, what you
do is get him to sit opposite you with legs spread out, you sit in front of
him with your own legs wide apart and here's the trick, avoid getting in a
tangle because you want to be able to just sit there relaxed...and play
with each other - like we are now...here's some more oil...doesn't it feel
smooth, even if I stroke your tip it won't let you cum too soon and that's
the thing, you can literally fondle each other for hours this way, and
you'll just get more and more randy as you do it.  Now, here's a hint, if
you think he's kinky enough, put more of the oil on his nipples, then take
time to gently tweak and roll them between your fingers, take careful note
of his breathing, it should get heavier - if you are lucky for it means
he's a responsive partner.  If it's working you can try something else, but
only if you are sure - perhaps leave it until your second or third
encounter but it's this - lean forward and look into his eyes as you do so
then deliberately clasp your arms around him, if he doesn't try to pull
away, caress his back running hand the full length.  In a minute or two,
he'll start to shake and shudder - he's carried away, out of control and
there you have him.  Abandon his penis, lie him on his side and stretch out
with him, still clasping his waist, back, massaging and caressing, his eyes
will probably be shut, then ever so carefully, press your lips to his.
He'll probably be unwilling at first but keep applying gentle pressure,
eventually he'll open them and ...against all inhibitions, he'll start
kissing you back.  Let this continue for a while until you are both
obviously accepting of the situation.  Now you have him.

I had been matching actions to words throughout this, and dreamily almost
in a drowsy state the boy asked

"Dad, I'm so...so much has happened, I'm sort of - overloaded, Dad I need
to do something....will he...be feeling like this?"

"If you've gone this far with him, yes, he'll almost certainly be feeling
like this...and there is something you can do, of course there is....make
sure you have stuff on your fingers first, then ease them up into him, one
two or perhaps three depending on what experience he's had and don't be in
any hurry because this next bit is where you really begin to have fun, both
of you.  Is he ready?  If yes, lift his legs way back, he'll be expecting
you to do this...again don't rush, just sort of saunter along, you're
entering him and you want to stay there for a while...so you mind your
manners don't you, and make him nice and comfortable....like this, how's
that?  Now you can start on him, watch his prostate though or you'll have
him shooting everywhere before you've properly started!"

My sons was on his back with knees beside his ears, and I was sinking in
and out like a well lubricated piston, he'd obviously kept his head though
despite his arousal for two questions followed.

"Dad, you said to watch and see if he undressed himself..which would mean
he's the dominant type...so what if he is?"

"Aha, son that's an easy one, in all likelihood it would mean than instead
of him lying and taking it, it will be you so keep it in mind, not that it
really matters because if he knows what he's doing, it's just as much fun
for you too!"

Then

"Dad, something you never mentioned, there's lots of sucking in those
pictures but...you never said anything about it."

"Well, yes sucking is mentioned in lots of stuff.  I didn't mention it for
two reasons but here you should make up your own mind.  First, amazing
though it might seem to most, many people don't actually respond to it -
perhaps for physiological reasons or whatever, it's not really a turn on.
By contrast there are people who DO respond, are fantastically stimulated
by it...but take care, if you indulge them for too long, they are likely to
cum suddenly and far too soon...as soon as their hips begin to thrust, pull
away!  But this is something you must work out and there are all sorts of
other things you can experiment with, "rimming" is one but the list can go
on and on.  The one important fact though is simply this - sex must not be
rushed, carefully choose your partners and - plan ahead for it, above all
it is there to be enjoyed!"

My son was wriggling his buttocks seeking to gain maximum benefit from my
thrusts, I humoured him by randomly varying the strokes and thus we danced
away, until, ever watchful, I saw his penis twitch, it seemed to swell and
then as he gasped aloud, jet after jet shot over his tummy and on to his
chest.

"Dad, Dad, I've got it I think.....and I won't let anyone rush me...no,
I'll just take my pick....and yes, Dad - I think it's going to
be....fun....."