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From: dbrunell@netcom.com (Doug Brunelle)
Subject: Re: First Experience
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Date: Wed, 1 Feb 1995 00:18:32 GMT
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Simi Kainsworth (simi.kainsworth@tcfarm.com) wrote:
: I am only 14 years old so I am still new at masturbation.

I started at age 14 also, and the first time was more or less an accident.
I was in my room, reading something non-sexual in nature, like a Hardy
Boys book or something. I was laying in my bed, on my back, and absently
stroking myself through my briefs. After a while, I reached inside and
started stroking the rod in sort of a reverse grip - fingers underneath,
and thumb above. At the time, this just felt good in a general way; I was
concentrating mostly on what I was reading. After probably 20-30 minutes
of this, I got a very strange feeling, like the area between my thighs and
my belly button was getting all numb. Then I squirted my first ever load
and made a mess of my underpants. I was totally amazed - and I was sort 
of embarrased about it. But I wanted to do it again at the first 
opportunity, and I probably wanked about a dozen times in the first week. 
It was before I learned about using lubrication, so my penis got very 
raw. I remember going to school with kleenex wrapped around my sore 
member, hoping the guys in my gym class wouldn't see my condition when I 
showered after class. :-) :-)

I have been 'bashing the bishop' pretty regularly since then, even after I
got married. I really think this is a normal part of our sexuality, and it
makes no sense to feel guilty about it. I also think we should be
encouraging our teenagers to pleasure themselves, not only to avoid
unwanted pregnancies and the possibility of disease, but also to get in
touch with their own sexual feelings before experimenting with a partner. 

: Does anybody know have any suggestions so that I will feel less guilty
: about masturbation?  I have been doing it for 6 months now but I still
: feel guilty every time I do it.

You're experiencing some new and pretty powerful feelings, but realize
that most of us have gone through the same changes. Discovering and
accepting our sexual natures is just part of growing up. Enjoy the 
feelings and don't let ANYBODY tell you you shouldn't do it. Happy 
wanking! :-)

: Anyone out there have any suggestions on how to masturbate better?

If you're not using lubrication, try some. My favorite is still plain old 
vaseline, although I've experimented with lots of other things. Crisco, 
cooking oil, moisturizing lotions. That's part of the fun. 

: Thanks.

: Simi.