ALT.SEX.MASTURBATION the FAQ

This is Part Four of the FAQ--This is the LAST part of the FAQ

ALT.SEX.MASTURBATION the FAQ  
Contents of the whole FAQ are found with PART ONE

X1. A partial listing of personal ad groups.

Note:  Be sure to post only to regional groups that
apply to you.  Check the group's FAQ and read messages
in the group before posting. The groups have various 
attitudes concerning how explicit ads should be.  Most
do not want commercial ads, so if you are selling something,
even if it is only your body, look for one of the 
marketplace groups.  Beware:  obviously I haven't
checked out every group, and there may be some joke
groups.  There are a few notes explaining the groups,
but these are mine.  They are not official descriptions,
and they may be wrong. Alt.sex.cancel is a test group;
anything posted to it or crossposted to it should be
cancelled.


    alt.nv.personals
    alt.personals
    alt.personals.ads
    alt.personals.aliens
    alt.personals.bi
    alt.personals.big-folks
    alt.personals.bondage
    alt.personals.d   d means discussion of personals, not the    
                      ads themselves 
    alt.personals.fat
    alt.personals.fetish
    alt.personals.herpes
    alt.personals.intercultural
    alt.personals.intergen
    alt.personals.jewish
    alt.personals.misc
    alt.personals.motss  motss=members of the same sex
    alt.personals.poly   multiple partners (>2)
    alt.personals.spanking
    alt.personals.tall
    alt.personals.teen
    alt.personals.transgendered
    alt.herpes.personals
    alt.personals.big-folks
    alt.va.personals
    aus.personals        Australia
    austin.personals     Austin, Tx
    av.personals
    ba.personals         Bay Area (San Francisco, Berkeley, etc.)
    chi.personals
    dfw.personals        Dallas-Ft. Worth
    houston.personals
    israel.ads.personals
    ithaca.personals
    la.personals
    md.personals
    niagara.personals
    nv.personals
    nyc.personals
    ott.personals
    pdaxs.ads.personals
    pnw.personals
    sat.personals
    sdnet.personals
    slo.personals
    triangle.personals                North Carolina
    triangle.personals.bi
    triangle.personals.friendship
    triangle.personals.m-seeking-m
    triangle.personals.m-seeking-w
    triangle.personals.motss
    triangle.personals.variations
    triangle.personals.w-seeking-m
    triangle.personals.w-seeking-w
    ucb.personals
    uk.adverts.personals
    us.sc.chester.personals
    us.sc.columbia.personals
    us.sc.lancaster.personals
    vegas.personals
    alt.va.personals

X2. Some other sex-oriented groups

Note: Read the group and the FAQ before posting.
Some of these may be inactive or joke groups.
This is not a complete list.

    alt.sex.anal
    alt.sex.balls
    alt.sex.bestiality
    alt.sex.bondage
    alt.sex.breast
    alt.sex.brothels
    alt.sex.erotica.marketplace   <- Commercial ads go here
    alt.sex.escorts.ads    <- ads go here
    alt.sex.escorts.ads.d   <- discussion of ads goes here
    alt.sex.exhibitionism
    alt.sex.fat
    alt.sex.fetish.amputee
    alt.sex.fetish.diapers
    alt.sex.fetish.feet
    alt.sex.fetish.sailor-moon
    alt.sex.fetish.scat    <- scat = shit play
    alt.sex.homosexual
    alt.sex.incest
    alt.sex.intergen
    alt.sex.magazines
    alt.sex.motss
    alt.sex.oral
    alt.sex.orgy
    alt.sex.pedophilia
    alt.sex.phone
    alt.sex.pictures.d    <- d is for discussion, don't put       
                             pictures here
    alt.sex.prostitution
    alt.sex.sm            <- sm=sadomasochism
    alt.sex.stories
    alt.sex.stories.bondage
    alt.sex.stories.d  <- discussion of stories, not stories
    alt.sex.stories.gay      \
    alt.sex.stories.hetero     \  _ stories, not discussions
    alt.sex.stories.incest      /
    alt.sex.stories.moderated /
    alt.sex.swingers
    alt.sex.tasteless
    alt.sex.telephone
    alt.sex.voyeurism
    alt.sex.wanted.escorts.ads   <- ads go here
    alt.sex.wanted.escorts.ads.d  <- discussion of ads here
    alt.sex.wanted.models
    alt.sex.watersports   <- urine play
    
X3. Some pictures (binary) groups

Note:  look at groups before posting. 
 .d means it is a discussion group.  Don't put pictures
in a discussion group.  If the group doesn't say
"male," "men," or something of the sort, it probably is
devoted to women (i.e. "pornstars" usually means only
female pornstars, and "cheerleaders" usually means only
female cheerleaders).  The Internet is world-wide and
some images on it may be considered illegal in various
jurisdictions but not in others.

Some of these groups were meant to be jokes, and some
were meant to be empty so that a group lower on the
hierarchy could be created.  Now many of them will
have something in them because spammers have put stuff
in every group and new users have not understood the
purpose of the original group.

    alt.binaires.pictures.erotica.moderated
    alt.binaires.pictures.erotica.teen
    alt.binaries.pictures.bigbutts
    alt.binaries.pictures.bisexuals
    alt.binaries.pictures.black.erotic.females
    alt.binaries.pictures.bruce-lloyd
    alt.binaries.pictures.cocks
    alt.binaries.pictures.erotica.amateur.d
    alt.binaries.pictures.erotica.amateur.female
    alt.binaries.pictures.erotica.amateur.male
    alt.binaries.pictures.erotica.animals
    alt.binaries.pictures.erotica.anime
    alt.binaries.pictures.erotica.art.pin-up
    alt.binaries.pictures.erotica.autos
    alt.binaries.pictures.erotica.balls
    alt.binaries.pictures.erotica.bears    <- hefty, hairy men
    alt.binaries.pictures.erotica.bestiality
    alt.binaries.pictures.erotica.biker-chicks
    alt.binaries.pictures.erotica.black.females
    alt.binaries.pictures.erotica.black.male
    alt.binaries.pictures.erotica.blondes
    alt.binaries.pictures.erotica.bondage
    alt.binaries.pictures.erotica.breasts
    alt.binaries.pictures.erotica.butts
    alt.binaries.pictures.erotica.cartoons
    alt.binaries.pictures.erotica.cheerleaders
    alt.binaries.pictures.erotica.d   <-discussion
    alt.binaries.pictures.erotica.disney
    alt.binaries.pictures.erotica.facials <-ejaculation on faces
    alt.binaries.pictures.erotica.female
    alt.binaries.pictures.erotica.female.anal
    alt.binaries.pictures.erotica.fetish
    alt.binaries.pictures.erotica.fetish.feet
    alt.binaries.pictures.erotica.fetish.hair
    alt.binaries.pictures.erotica.fetish.latex
    alt.binaries.pictures.erotica.fetish.leather
    alt.binaries.pictures.erotica.furry
    alt.binaries.pictures.erotica.garters-and-heels
    alt.binaries.pictures.erotica.gaymen
    alt.binaries.pictures.erotica.groupsex
    alt.binaries.pictures.erotica.gymnast-girls
    alt.binaries.pictures.erotica.high-heels
    alt.binaries.pictures.erotica.hornyrob
    alt.binaries.pictures.erotica.indian-asian
    alt.binaries.pictures.erotica.interracial
    alt.binaries.pictures.erotica.koo.sisters
    alt.binaries.pictures.erotica.kwakiutl
    alt.binaries.pictures.erotica.latina
    alt.binaries.pictures.erotica.lesbians
    alt.binaries.pictures.erotica.lolita
    alt.binaries.pictures.erotica.male
    alt.binaries.pictures.erotica.male.anal
    alt.binaries.pictures.erotica.male.chubby
    alt.binaries.pictures.erotica.mardi-gras
    alt.binaries.pictures.erotica.midgets
    alt.binaries.pictures.erotica.moderated
    alt.binaries.pictures.erotica.nativeamerican
    alt.binaries.pictures.erotica.nose
    alt.binaries.pictures.erotica.oral
    alt.binaries.pictures.erotica.orientals
    alt.binaries.pictures.erotica.panties
    alt.binaries.pictures.erotica.plushies  
    alt.binaries.pictures.erotica.pornstar
    alt.binaries.pictures.erotica.pornstars
    alt.binaries.pictures.erotica.pregnant
    alt.binaries.pictures.erotica.puffies
    alt.binaries.pictures.erotica.redheads
    alt.binaries.pictures.erotica.scanmaster
    alt.binaries.pictures.erotica.schoolgirls
    alt.binaries.pictures.erotica.spanking
    alt.binaries.pictures.erotica.spatch
    alt.binaries.pictures.erotica.tasteless
    alt.binaries.pictures.erotica.teen.d   <- discussion
    alt.binaries.pictures.erotica.teen.female
    alt.binaries.pictures.erotica.teen.female.masturbation
    alt.binaries.pictures.erotica.teen.fuck
    alt.binaries.pictures.erotica.teen.male
    alt.binaries.pictures.erotica.terry.agar
    alt.binaries.pictures.erotica.transvestites
    alt.binaries.pictures.erotica.uncut   <- uncircumcized males
    alt.binaries.pictures.erotica.urine
    alt.binaries.pictures.erotica.voyeurism <-hidden camera,      
                                             watching, etc.
    alt.binaries.pictures.erotica.young
    alt.binaries.pictures.groupsex
    alt.binaries.pictures.lesbians
    alt.binaries.pictures.lingerie
    alt.binaries.pictures.lingerie.bigbutts
    alt.binaries.pictures.lolita
    alt.binaries.pictures.lolita.misc
    alt.binaries.pictures.nude.celebrities
    alt.binaries.pictures.nude.female
    alt.binaries.pictures.nude.female.bodybuilders
    alt.binaries.pictures.nudism
    alt.binaries.pictures.nylons
    alt.binaries.pictures.pantyhose
    alt.binaries.pictures.utilities <- viewers, decoders, etc.
    alt.binaries.pictures.victoria.secret
    alt.binaries.pictures.voyeurism  <- hidden camera, watching,  
                                        etc.
    alt.sex.bestiality.pictures
    alt.sex.masturbation.pictures
    alt.sex.masturbation.pictures.female
    alt.sex.masturbation.pictures.female.teen
    alt.sex.pictures.d    <- discussion, not pictures
    alt.sex.pictures.female
    alt.sex.pictures.male

X4.  What you should know about 011 long distance.

You may find advertisements for various kinds of phone
sex or sex bulletin boards (BBS) which try to convince
you to call a long distance number that begins with
011.

These services are described as being "free."  Often
the claim is "only regular long distance charges apply."
The services make their money from kickbacks from
foreign telephone companies.  Although there may be
a low per-minute rate quoted, such calls invariably 
incur a very large connect fee (like $23).

Ads for these services do not belong in this discussion
group (alt.sex.masturbation) but belong in one of the
commercial sex groups.  If you wish paid sex telephone
services, please patronize those companies which 
advertise only in appropriate ad groups, but most of
all, investigate what your calls will cost.

The hidden charges will appear on your long distance
telephone bill and if you did make the calls there will
be virtually no way to avoid paying (provided you hope
to keep you telephone service).

Most of the 011 numbers are for Guyana (of cyanide Kool-Aide
fame) or for Singapore.  You will notice also that most of the
ads are forgeries.

X5.  How to detect forgeries

Forgery is common on USENET.  The ability to detect forgery is an
essential skill in a number of situations.

If you wish to complain about spam, you should check the spam
carefully for forgery, because if the message is forged your
complaint might go to the wrong postmaster, annoying someone who
cannot do anything about the spam while not getting your message
to the person who can do something about it.

In the case of advertisements, forgery indicates dishonesty.
Sometimes pranks (or worse) use forgery in the attempt to get
people to make phone calls or send e-mail to an unsuspecting
victim.  Be especially careful of messages that invite you to
call a personal phone number or to send explicit e-mail. 
Sometimes these posts are forged by vindictive ex-spouses or
ex-boyfriends or coworkers with a grudge or friends who think
this is a funny prank.

While complete headers are necessary to detect some forgeries,
the simplest kinds of forgery can be seen by comparing the From:
header and the message ID. For example:

From: alicia@western.com (Alicia Justins)
Message-ID: <4revp0$afb@argentina.it.earthlink.net>

       This message is an obvious forgery because the domain in
the from address does not match the domain in the message ID.

From: alicia@western.com (Alicia Justins)

western.com is the domain this poster claims to be posting from. 

Message-ID: <4revp0$afb@argentina.it.earthlink.net>

but the message-ID shows clearly that the message came from
earthlink.net .


If the from line does not show where the message came from it is
a forgery.  Forgeries are a violation of technical standards, and
if you cannot nail a forger for any other reason, that the
message is forged is sufficient grounds for a complaint.  With
responsible services providers a forgery is sufficient reason to
take action against a user, even if the post does not meet
technical definitions of spam or does not violate any other
rules.  If this were someone posting from work but did not want
replies sent to his account at work, he or she could use the
"Reply-to:" header to direct replies to his or her personal
account.  Someone who did not want the address he or she was
posting from known could use an anonymous remailer.  Forging the
from is easy on many newsreaders, but it is an indication of
dishonesty.

Forging the message ID is a bit harder but can be done. Here are
some headers from a more sophisticated forgery:

From: LOLA <LOLA@COMP.NET>
Message-ID: <31DC6DEC.3571@AOL.COM>
NNTP-Posting-Host: max2-so-ca-25.earthlink.net

In this case it is easy to see that this is a forgery because it
claims to be from lola@comp.net , but the message ID says it is
from aol.com .  In this case, however, the forger has used a
server which identifies itself.  Not all severs put in the
posting-header, but in this case the server did.  

The NNTP-Posting-Host: header claims this message was actually
posted from earthlink.net .  Thus, we can be sure that either the
message ID or the posting host header is a lie.

The path header can be helpful in determining a forgery, and if
there is no NNTP-Posting-Host header, the path header may contain
the clues as to where the message really came from.

Path:news.io.com!news.tamu.edu!cs.utexas.edu!
news.sprintlink.net!dormouse.icanect.net!ppp-13
>From: @AOL.COM (Adult GIFS FREE)
>Newsgroups: alt.sex.trans,alt.sex.voxmee [etc.]
>Subject: ** FREE PICS FREE **
>Date: Mon, 04 Dec 95 14:47:57 GMT
>Organization: FREE ADULT GIFS
>Lines: 65
>Message-ID: <49uuvv$l3@dormouse.icanect.net>
>X-Newsreader: News Xpress Version 1.0 Beta #3
>Xref: news.io.com alt.sex.trans:5216 [etc.] 

I have broken the path line here, but real path statements do not
contain line breaks, although they may be line wrapped in various
ways according to your newsreader.

The path header shows the path the message took to get to you,
but it is backward.  That is, the place the message started
should be at the end of the path header and your news server
should be at the beginning.

Path:news.io.com!news.tamu.edu!cs.utexas.edu!
news.sprintlink.net!dormouse.icanect.net!ppp-13

This path statement is for a post RECEIVED at io.com .  All
path headers you see will begin with Path:<your newserver name
here>!  If the path header is not forged the ORIGIN of the
post is at the end of the line.

In this case the message began at ppp-13 .  This is a ppp connect
within the originating system. Then the message was passed to
dormouse.icanect.net . This is the name of the news server which
put the message on the net, therefore this message came from
icanect.net .

Path headers can be forged, but the real originating site must
appear somewhere in the path. When the path statement is forged,
the path from the real origin to your news server is right.

A forged path then looks like this:

Path:<your news server's name>!<bunches of sites the message DID
pass through>!<site the message REALLY came from>!<phony list of
site the message DID NOT pass through>!<phony site of origin>

However, forged paths are rare.  In this case,

Path:news.io.com!news.tamu.edu!cs.utexas.edu!
news.sprintlink.net!dormouse.icanect.net!ppp-13
Message-ID: <49uuvv$l3@dormouse.icanect.net>

the message ID and the path both indicate the message started at
icanect.net , and this probably is the truth.  If you aren't sure
who to complain to about a spam, start with the site listed last
on the path.  You will be right most of the time, and if your
complaint was polite, you will be likely to get the cooperation
of that site in tracking down the forgery if it did not come from
them.

If you intend to complain about a forgery, be sure to save the
message with complete headers.  Quote the full headers in your
complaint, otherwise the postmaster you write to will be unable
to determine the real source of the message.

Corrections, additions, and contributions to
   eighner@io.com

If you send a contribution, be sure to say whether you
want credit for it or prefer to remain anonymous.


Planned additions to this part:

What to do about spams and scams.  Common scams.

THIS IS THE END OF THE FAQ