Date: Mon, 31 Mar 2003 08:19:33 EST
From: Lacey
Subject: Lacey's World/006/On Anal Sex

Lacey's World 006

Lacey muses on the Joys of Anal Sex


	So why do I love anal sex sooooo much?  I don't know. Well, that's
the simple answer. There are those who say that it harks back to the nappy
or something. Personally I couldn't care. I just like it! I like giving it,
and I like taking it. And there are so many ways of enjoying it.

	It is not something I undertake without preparation. Those who have
read my writings previously, or who have chatted with me at #niftygirls,
will know that I insist on cleanliness. I am not a scat freak. Far from
it. But with a little thought that does not really come into it. An enema
can be good foreplay too.

	OK. I know there are some of you who are saying, "What is an
enema?" Basically it is a method of flushing out your lower colon - colonic
irrigation - and can be done simply and efficiently. Your local pharmacy
can supply you with an enema kit, ready to go. The basics are a bag full of
sterile solution, a tube and a thin nozzle to insert into your ass. Sit on
the toilet and, holding the bag at about shoulder height, insert the nozzle
into your bum (can be vagina after intercourse - a douche) and gently
squeeze the contents of the bag into yourself. Remove the nozzle and hold
it in for a minute or so, then release the whole lot into the toilet. Be
warned, it can go with a rush! You can do it twice if you want to be really
sure that nothing is left behind. You now have a nice clean bum. I find it
feels nice, and I know it is nicer for my partner, who, when we 69 has her
nose stuck in my ring etc. For Angie and I it is part of the foreplay for
us. We give each other the enema, and enjoy the other's touch and so on. It
is not done alone, behind closed doors. Because we often have enemas, we
have invested in an attachment which screws onto the bath shower
attachment, instead of the usual spray handset. It looks like a cigar tube
with holes in it, and has another tube so that it can rinse out at the same
time. I would kneel on the tiled floor in the bathroom and Angie would
ready the water, testing temperature and pressure. Then with the drain tube
hanging into the toilet, she would insert the spray end into my ass, and
basically gently fuck me with it, whilst all the crap flows out and into
the toilet. Simple! Then we swap places and I do it to her. Clean bums with
the minimum of fuss, and lots of fun. It is amazing how many girls don't
think about this step of cleanliness before having sex, whether straight or
lesbian, and yet they wish their partner would stick fingers/tongues/toys
up there and somehow magically not get a brown, smelling, coating on
it. Come on girls! Where are your brains?


	I always feel a certain excitement when I put on a strap-on. I know
what I am going to do, and I know with whom, and I know that it is going to
be good. Feeling the front pad of the strap up against my mound, holding
the shaft as I tighten the waist and leg straps, possibly even inserting a
butt plug into myself as well, it is all part of the build up. Angie bought
me a wonderful toy for last Christmas, which I love to use, and so does she
(she has one as well). It is called the Nexus, and can be obtained from
//www.blowfish.com/catalog/toys/vixen_dildos.html#t-vxn-1185. I am not an
agent for them (I wish I were), but they do have remarkable toys, which I
can promise you are fantastic. The Nexus is a double-ended cock dildo that
I insert into myself and fuck Angie with, with the other end. I can feel
everything that I do, and she does, and if we know we are going to be
'frisky' I keep it in with the double-trouble harness that Vixen can supply
as well (t-stl-1310). Actually the double harness is also great if you want
to double entry fuck, as you can use the Nexus and an ordinary cock dildo
at the same time - one for the back and one for the front! Genius! It takes
a couple of tries, but it is well worth the effort.

The last ingredient, and often the most important, is a good water based
lubricant. In Britain the most widely available lube is KY Jelly, from
virtually any pharmacy, but if you ask you can also get nice purse-sized
sachets as well, should you find that a tube is too big or bulky. I use
'Wet Light' or 'Maximus', both of which come in sachets about the same size
as ketchup portions. I have always found that it is essential to use lube,
maybe because I really do have a tight ass like my friends tell me!

So there we have the makings for a good anal session, a clean bum, a method
of penetration, and a lube to help it on its' way. But like everything to
do with enjoying sex, it is a two-way occasion. I am not into the
dominant-submission scene at all, but into sharing to build up the
excitement. I like to start in a relaxed atmosphere, that is friendly to
both (or all if there are more than two). So it would be "My place or
yours?" to begin with probably, with the assurance of little distraction to
spoil the ambience. If this were a first time with the other, I would be
matter-of-fact about going to the toilet to give myself an enema, and would
she like to watch, or help. Then as we do it, a suggestion from me to help
her do herself normally gets the right response and we start to 'climb the
staircase to heaven'.

	Sitting on the toilet is not one of the world's most sexiest
positions, but to have your partner kneeling beside you as you insert a
tube up your ass is very exciting, even if it doesn't sound it. Both of us
naked, it is an ideal time to caress breasts, kiss, suck, everything so
close, plus the feeling of warmth in my bowels. Even emptying out heightens
the sensations. Then there is the swap-round, and I am touching and
stroking, my head close to her breasts, able to lick and suck as my hands
find her cunt, flaps, ass-hole. Afterwards a shower together, warm water,
shower gel, stroking hands down her spine, probing kisses, holding her ass
cheeks, wiping the wet hair out of her face, tongue to tongue, breast to
breast. Lovely! Then into enormous warmed bath sheets. Rubbing each other
dry, her hair, face, neck, shoulder blades, breasts, flat tummy,
legs. Watching her nipples harden as my towelling teases them to stand
up. Kneeling on the floor with my eyes at her pubic level to dry her
legs. Leaning forward and burying my face in her soft cleft. Smelling the
shower gel, with the strengthening musky smell of her excitement. My hand
between her legs, stroking that sensitive piece of skin between one hole
and another. Feeling her juices. Slipping a finger into the wet
well. Sliding that wet finger back over the other inviting hole. Feeling
the crinkley skin tighten and pucker as my finger gently pushes itself in,
but not actually entering. She puts her hands on either side of me head as
I lick her slit, guiding me, pushing me in deeper, harder. I lie on my back
and she kneels over me, her legs each side of my head. I hold her bum
cheeks apart and lick her cunt and ass-hole. She dips her head and responds
in the same way. Together we pleasure each other, our tongues and fingers
slipping on our partner's wetness. Smell, taste, sight, and touch all
conspire together. Then the feeling of approaching
pain/pleasure. Everything becomes distant, and my head is filled with the
on-coming flood. Waves of 'feelings' wash over me. I can feel my body
convulse as though shocked. I feel my partner's mouth and tongue on my
cunt, taking the cyprian juices as they squirt out of me, urging me to give
more. Then I peak into 'too much land' and have to ask my partner to stop
before the pleasure becomes real pain. As my red waves recede I concentrate
on her, using every trick I know I bring her to the place I have just left
and feel her jerk and judder at the end of my tongue. She falls to one side
on the tiled floor of my shower room. I swivel and meet her searching
mouth. We kiss our arms each cradling the others' body. And this is just
the beginning.......

	Fresh warm towels take us into the bedroom. I love the feeling of
fresh warm towels. I tumble dry them, as air-drying towels make them
scratchy and hard. And they have to be big, six feet by six feet square. I
keep them in the hot cupboard where the hot tank is. What a pity that
modern houses now have boilers with hot water on demand, as they don't have
a hot cupboard any more. No hot towels!

	We collapse onto my king-sized bed. It is set in a corner of the
room, with two long shelves on the wall running the length of the bed. The
ceiling-to-floor mirror doors of the wall-to-wall wardrobe on the wall
opposite reflects my collection of toys on those shelves, gathered over the
last few years. Dildoes, butt plugs and vibrators stand in rows, each a
different size, shape, and colour, each promising a different delight to
the user and recipient. The strap-on harnesses hang on hooks at the end,
and along the front edge of the bottom shelf. There hang thong harnesses,
snug spandex shorts with the business end of a dildo harness built in,
dildo harnesses for double dildos, two hole harnesses so that the wearer
can have a dildo up her and still give it to another, a harness for my
favourite Nexus, a face harness that lets me strap a dildo onto my chin,
rather than my hips, and another that straps to my leg so my partner can
sit on my knee and have a dil up her cunt or ass to fuck herself on whilst
we kiss/lick/suck/cuddle.

	Selection can be quite a task. I have known my partner Angie lay on
her back on the bed and kick the underneath of the lowest shelf with a
raised leg until something falls off. 'Natural selection' she calls it!
Other times I may get a telephone text message during the day telling me
that she is going to fuck me with one that she names when she gets home. I
love the excitement of expectation that comes with that. Walking through
the shops or whatever, knowing that I will be shafted with a particular toy
in a particular way later in the day, normally ends in squashy knickers! Or
I may 'phone her and tell her that I am sitting with a particular one in me
as I speak, getting myself off, with her sitting at her Office desk,
frigging her clit as well.

	With a toy selected, I must decide whether I will use a harness or
just hold it in my hands. If a harness is needed then the act of putting it
on becomes a ritual, like donning armour before a battle. The toy must be
lubricated, and that in itself is another joy to me, feeling the length of
it pass through my hands as I spread the slippery stuff, sensing each lump,
bump, vein, thickness, softness or hardness, bendability.......

	Positioning the recipient comes next. On her back with her legs
apart and her feet high in the air? Angie and I both have totally hairless
pussies. When she lies on her back like that, I see her slot with its
darker red interior, and puffy lips which, when held apart a bit, reveal
her clit. I love her on all fours, when she shows me her cunt topped by her
anus, a darkish brown crinkley ring. I am on my knees, holding the shaft of
a cock shaped dildo, which is strapped, to me over my pubic bone. The front
plate is brushing against my clit, which is about 3/4 to an inch long when
erect. I feel the slickness of the lube as I slide my hand up and down the
shaft. I shuffle along the bed, watching the distance between the tip of my
cock and her anus shorten. I reach over and apply a small amount of lube to
her ring, seeing it tighten and relax with the coolness of the gel. Then my
knees are between her open knees. The tip of my cock is kissing her anus. I
nudge with my hips, feeling the front plate caress my clit. I position the
tip and then hold her hips. Her head raises slightly, and I know her eyes
are shut as she relaxes that one muscle. I push gently and the tip starts
to enter. I pull slightly on her hips and it continues to slip in, her ring
opening to allow the flared head of the plastic cock to enter her. The
first inch is in and her ring closes over the back of the cock head, down
onto the veined shaft of the dildo. I let her get used to the intruder and
then push again. Slowly the shaft slides into her. At three inches I stop
and withdraw and inch, then rest for 20 seconds. Then again I start to
push, but this time in a slight fucking, in and out, motion, getting deeper
and deeper with each little thrust. Gradually I feed the cock into her bum
hole, until all six inches have disappeared and she can feel the false
balls against her cunt slit.

I adore the feeling of a dildo as it slides into my arse, and I always
concentrate on each sensation, the skin dragging at my entrance, the head
working its way into me, her hands on my hips, the slightly speeded up
breathing of my partner and I, the feeling of fullness in my bottom. I
often clench my muscles in my lower abdomen in order to feel the ridges and
veins as they are pushed into me, closing down on the girth of the monster
invader as it comes and goes. Sometimes I can climax on just anal
stimulation, other times I reach under and frig my clit and cunt lips. I
maybe fuck my cunt with another toy whilst being bum-fucked, either keeping
in rhythm or using the opposite, pushing mine in as she pulls her's
out. Sometimes Angie stops and pulls out of me altogether. Then I feel her
weight change on the bed as she bends down and inserts her tongue into my
(clean!) ass hole, licking the inside and the tender skin between my two
holes. Or she may insert a finger or two, now that my hole is open. With
her thumb in my cunt and two fingers in my ass, she can fuck me quite
hard/quick/deep, straight-arming me whilst I brace myself against the
bed-head over the pillows.

Angie likes me sometimes to fist her whilst licking her ass. She always
tells me to take my wristwatch off, because it scratches (ho!ho!). I lube
my hand and push it into her puss, rotating it one way then the other, so
as to ease it in. I normally kneel beside her, so I can push my hand in and
lick her offered brown ring at the same time. Sometimes she wants me to use
ass beads on a strip, so that I can push them in and out as I ease into her
cunt. I like watching them pop out of her ass, or push against her ring and
plop in. When I have my hand right in I can feel the soft entrance to her
uterus. I have to be careful as she has a coil up there, one of the ones
that release hormones as well. We both got them fitted, and now we don't
have the problems of menstruation getting in the way of work or fun. We
still feel shitty every month but no spotting or anything. Sometimes she
likes me to fuck her with a soft five inch butt plug she likes, with me
holding the 't' bar end and working it in and out her ring, so the bulb end
continually stretches her muscle and then closes over the thin neck end. I
love it when she fucks my ass with a 7-inch dil that is a series of
lumps. I can feel each one as it passes through my entrance, but it slips
in and out easily. It has a diameter of about 11/2 inches and the thickest
one I have is actually 2 inches across. To take that one I have to start on
something thinner and work up to it, as there is no way that I can stretch
to 2 inches straight off.

Well enough of my ramblings. As you can realise now, I love anal and all
things associated with it. I like taking and giving, and I am blessed with
a partner, Angie, who is like-minded. If you want to try and have not
plucked up the courage, try on your own. There are plenty of toys that are
thin so that you won't get hurt. Take your time, and use plenty of
lube. Work up to the bigger ones when you get more confidence, or stay with
the size that you like. If you try with a partner, make sure that both of
you realise that stop means stop! Agree on a 'definite stop word' and trust
your partner to stop when you use it. Sometimes it happens that something
you have tried before just isn't working. Don't be put off, try something
else. And remember "There is nothing new under the sun", so if you think of
it, ten-to-one someone has tried it before you. Just enjoy!

More from Lacey another day.........