Date: Sun, 1 Feb 1998 00:41:18 EST
From: Dianic007@aol.com
Subject: Mistress of Mistresses

MISTRESS OF MISTRESSES

by

Roberta Angela Dee

Dianic007@aol.com


        I was introduced to Mistress Tanya through Mistress Mir.  
Ms. Mir is a practitioner of the arts of bondage and discipline, as 
well as sadomasochism, collectively referred to as BDSM.  

        Mistress Mir is an elegant African American woman who 
resides in New Jersey.  She owns one of the most elaborately 
fitted dungeons in the United States, and has been a practitioner 
of BDSM for more than 25 years.

        Mistress Tanya is a Latin America mistress who wanted to 
discuss what she believed was her crowning achievement: the 
total feminization of a submissive male.  Our interview took place 
at her home in Westbury, New York -- an upper middle class 
region of Long Island.


Roberta Angela Dee (RAD):    Looking at your home, it is obvious 
that you treasure fine and delicate works of art.  How does one 
who treasures such delicate works become a practitioner of the 
brutal art of BDSM.

Mistress Tanya (Ms. T):    It's a misconception to believe that 
BDSM is totally concerned with brutality and pain.  It is mostly a 
relationship based on love and trust, as well as an appreciation 
for the beautiful bond that can exist between two human being.  
In that sense, it is very much like a fine and delicate work of art.

RAD:     And what led you to become a Mistress?

Ms. T:    The cost of living on Long Island is quite high.  Many 
years ago, I began supplementing my income through 
prostitution.  As a prostitute, I developed a clientele of 
submissives.  These submissives eventually became my focus because they were
willing to pay more for my services and did 
not require sex.

RAD:     That's a pretty good arrangement.  So, if not for sex, why 
did they come to you?

Ms. T:    Because they wanted to be dominated.  That's what 
being a submissive is all about.  It's about relinquishing your 
freedom to a superior individual in exchange for their love, 
guidance and protection.

RAD:     Protection?  Protection from what?

Ms. T:    Protection from a world where they are forced to think 
and make decision.  Some people reach a point in their lives 
where they just wish to obey.  Many of my clients are responsible 
leaders and business people.  They lead and make decisions all 
day.  Their responsibilities can be enormous.  Within the 
environment of my dungeon, they are protected from their world.

RAD:     I'm not sure I understand.  Wouldn't it be just as easy for 
them to take a vacation or sit at home watching the boob tube -- 
Barbara Walters or MSNBC?

Ms. T:    (laughing)  They certainly could, if all they wanted was 
mindless entertainment.  However, you must remember that most 
of these people are complex individuals who seek complex 
relationships.  Being submissive does not mean being mindless.

RAD:     I understand.  Now, let's cut to the chase.  Why do you 
refer to yourself as the Mistress of Mistresses?  Is it vanity or is 
there some basis to your claim?

Ms. T:    I refer to myself as the Mistress of Mistresses -- at least 
in the United States, because I believe I have achieved what no 
other American mistress has achieved -- the total feminization of 
a submissive male.

RAD:     Why is that such a significant achievement?  And what 
precisely have you done that has not been achieved by any other 
American mistress?

Ms. T:    In the culture of BDSM, there is an activity referred to as 
"forced feminization."  It usually involves a submissive cross-
dresser.  The cross dresser is usually required to wear a few 
articles of female clothing or undergarments.  In the more 
dramatic instances, the submissive is actually trained to be a 
maid.

There are several mistresses with live-in maids who are feminized 
males.  Off hand, I can think of Mistress Scarlet De Medici, 
Mistress Julie of Maryland, Mistress Kitten and Lady Payne.  
They each have at least one maid who is male but forced to 
serve and to dress as a female maid.

RAD:     So, what have you done that is any different from what 
the mistresses you've mentioned?

Ms. T:    I emasculated the male submissive and left him with no 
choice but to live as a woman, Miss Dee.  I know of no other 
mistress in the United States who has accomplished this.

RAD:    OK.  Well, who are we talking about?  And before I ask 
you anything else, please tell me why do you consider this to be 
an accomplishment.

Ms. T:    His name was Edgar S.  He now lives and works as 
Elizabeth S.

RAD:     So, he's no longer your submissive.

Ms. T:     Well, he's no longer a he.  But to answer your question: 
No.  She's no longer my submissive.

RAD:     And to get back to my earlier question:  Why do you 
consider Edgar's emasculation to be an accomplishment?

Ms. T:    Well, Roberta, it has to do with the role of women in our 
society.  Most women adapt to a culturally oppressive society that 
demeans the significance of women and those things that are 
important to women.  Few women recognize or accept 
themselves as actually being superior to men.  And the reason 
they don't, Roberta, is because they are culturally conditioned to 
accept a more submissive position in society.

>From my perspective, the act of emasculating a male is actually 
doing him a favor.  He becomes superior by becoming more 
feminine.  Unfortunately, most men will only allow themselves to 
be feminized to a point.  They acquire just enough femininity to 
satisfy their fetishtic sexuality.  There is, however, an enormous 
difference between being a sissy maid and being a woman.

You can train a man to be a very good sissy maid in less than a 
week, Roberta.  It took two years to develop Elizabeth to the 
point where she could live and work as a woman, and function in 
society as a female.

RAD:     I can understand that there's a whole lot more involved in 
doing what you've done, Mistress Tanya.  But could you have 
done it if Elizabeth had not been a willing participant?  And have 
you really accomplished something that no other mistress could 
accomplish if she had the right subject?

Ms. T:    (pauses, thinking)  Well, I certainly had to encourage 
Edgar to commit to becoming female and not just a sissy maid.  
That took a good deal of persuasion and behavior modification.  I 
made it clear that he would be rewarded only for those things he 
did that embraced femininity.  And as he progressed, I made it 
more difficult for him to receive a reward.  By the time I was done 
with him, he wanted to become a woman.  

Now, whether any other Mistress could have accomplished this, I 
can think of only a very few.  And they would have to be willing to 
devote a good deal of time -- assuming they had a willing subject.

RAD:     Is a willing subject so difficult to find?

Ms. T:    (laughs)  Most definitely!  You have to remember, I 
supplied Elizabeth with female hormones.  Within 6 months, she 
had pronounced female breasts.  She could no longer achieve an 
erection and was completely and permanently sterile.  Most men 
would not be willing to surrender their ability to achieve an 
erection.

RAD:     How did you manage to persuade Elizabeth to continue 
taking female hormones?

Ms. T:    Well, I didn't initially know about all of the side effects of 
taking female hormones.  I didn't realize that she would become 
more emotional, that her skin texture would change, or that her 
bottom would get larger.  So, it was a learning process for both 
she and I.

Initially, I would strike her penis with a leather strap, if she 
responded to photographs of nude females or to videos of nude 
women.  Eventually, she stopped responding.  I thought it was 
because of my behavior modification techniques.  In reality, it was 
that the hormones had left her chemically castrated.

At that point, I began telling her that to relieve her sexual 
frustrations she would need to learn how to physically respond as 
a female.  

RAD:     How did you go about teaching her?

Ms. T:    Well, she already had developed an appreciable amount 
of sensitivity in her breasts.  So, I encouraged her to fondle them 
while fingering her anus.  Eventually, she learned how to make 
herself climax in that matter.  Next, I introduced her to my strap-
on dildo.  She enjoyed this immensely and was soon telling me of 
dreams she had of being with a real man.  I knew, immediately, of 
course that she was hinting that she wanted a male lover.

RAD:     Did you provide her with a male companion?

Ms. T:    Of course!  I had a male slave who was more than willing 
to have his cock sucked by a willing female.  And he was more 
than happy to screw her afterwards.  In fact, the more he crewed 
her, the more feminine and womanly she became.

RAD:     I can just imagine.  So, how did the decision come about 
for her to leave?

Ms. T:    Ironically, whereas she was quite happy to be a 
submissive male, she was not nearly as happy being a 
submissive female.  She wanted the right to choose -- particularly 
her own sexual mate.

The separation, however, was very amicable.  She still 
corresponds with me from time to time, and she telephones 
occasionally.

RAD:     And how is she doing?

Ms. T:    She's doing quite well for herself.  She manages a gift 
shop here on Long Island.  She participates in civic functions and 
lives with a fairly successful gentleman.  Basically, she's become 
a working housewife.

RAD:     So, your relationship with her has had a happy ending.  
Would you agree with my assessment?

Ms. T:    Certainly.  She's become a woman and she's earned the 
respect of the women in her community.  Just as importantly, she 
has a good relationship with her husband.  I'd say that would be a 
happy ending for most women.

RAD:     I agree.  And thank you for a very enlightening and 
interesting interview.

Ms. T:    You're quite welcome.


The End


The author may be contacted at Dianic007@aol.com.

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