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 Advice to Women on Anal Sex
3/3/99 From: CrystalOne@worldnet.att.net (CrystalOne)

   Yup....if you get fucked in the ass before you are ready to take it, it
can be incredibly painful.

   The only way I can handle a cock in my ass...  I only do it as an
occasional treat, it can feel great, but that back entrance really is more
vulnerable to damage than the vagina, and I am very careful not to overdo
it...  is if I stretch myself beforehand.

   Start with one finger, using plenty of lubricant (I use vaseline, but
don't use that if you are also using condoms) and just kind of get your
rectum used to that one finger.  Just hold it in there for awhile, then
move it around, until it starts to feel good to you, and you feel yourself
relaxing.

   Then try to insert a second finger, after going back for more lubricant
(use TONS of lubricant).  Again, just keep it there until it's comfortable.
Move the two fingers in and out once you are relaxed, until it feels good.
Generally, you can then switch to a dildo or some vegetable that is the
same width (or wider) than the cock you want to take.

   Remember, use lots of lubricant, same routine.  If it takes an hour to
get ready for the sex (and it takes me at least a good fifteen minutes,
generally) then take an hour.  Don't even try to take a cock back there
until you are stretched-out enough, relaxed, turned-on, and lubricated with
artificial lubricants to the MAX.

   I promise you, if it's done very very carefully, and done right, it can
be incredibly pleasurable, in a way that even regular sex is not.  It is
hard to describe, it's really quite wonderful.

   Good luck!  Love, CrystalOne

   A note from Joan...

   For further information and suggestions by another woman who regularly
enjoys anal sex, read my file # J3-118.  On page 36, Anita offers her
suggestings and thoughts on this subject.

   Joan