Subject: Married Guy FAQ (Frequently Asked Questions)
Story Codes: nosex
Updated: August 3, 2016
Author: Kelly <pghp_girl@yahoo.com>
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Summary
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A lot of people have asked me about why I love having sex with married
men so a few years ago I wrote a special FAQ about it. Things change so
in looking over my blog I thought it was time for an update...
Please remember that these are MY personal views and not intended to
dictate or judge other people's lifestyle or conduct. What people do
within their marriages is their choice and if they feel differently than
I do about these issues and their marriage is working, more power to
them!
Another point... Nothing in this article has anything to do with my
father. I do NOT view him as a "married man" in the context of this
discussion. He is my father which means what we do is incest which is
entirely different than what I am discussing in this article. How I feel
about sex with my dad is covered in other articles I have posted.
Table of Contents
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Chapter 1 - Definitions
Chapter 2 - Questions and Answers
Chapter 1 - Definitions
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When discussing these sort of topics I find a lot of people misunderstand
what I mean when I use certain phrases or words so before discussing this
topic any further, a few definitions are in order. Remember that these
are MY definitions which dictate how I lead MY life so if yours are
different then while reading this, try to remember what mine are before
you make any judgments.
Sex: The penetration, however slight, of a female vagina by a male
penis. Once ANY part of a penis is in, even if it's just the very
tip, it's as good as ALL in so far as the act is concerned. Even
if the hymen remains intact it's still sex.
Virgin: Someone who has never engaged in sex. For a girl this has
nothing to do with the status of her hymen as many girls break
their hymen through sports or other activities such as
masturbation yet they are still virgins until they have sex. It
doesn't matter if the penis doesn't go in far enough to break the
hymen - she's no longer a virgin from the moment the tip of the
penis penetrates her vagina. Thus those men who get off pushing
the tip of their dick into little girls so they can cum in them
are also taking her virginity. In the end, there is no true
"test" for a girl's virginity, no different than for boys.
Family: The members of your immediate family out to and including aunts,
uncles and first cousins whether by blood OR marriage. DNA
doesn't makes a family - it's the relationships that count. For
instance, if someone is adopted then they become part of the
family. When two people marry, their families are merged into
one based on the marital relationship and all are treated as
members of the same family.
Incest: The act of sex between members of the same family. Based on my
definition of family, sex between in-laws would be considered
incest. If two people marry and each has kids from a former
marriage then sex between their step-children would now become
incestual whereas it wasn't before they got married. Incest is
all about the family regardless of how it is created.
Adultery: When a married person has sex with someone not in their family
with the intent of cheating on their spouse. Three important
things to take from that, all of which must be met to commit
adultery...
1) It's the INTENT that determines whether sex becomes
adultery.
2) You can't commit adultery unless you're married. If you're
single and have sex with a married person without the
consent of their spouse, THEY are the ones committing
adultery, not you.
3) Incestual sex does not constitute adultery as by
definition, sex is already "approved" within the family
members.
Oral "Sex": At its core, sex is fundamentally a reproductive act even
though most of the time that's not the intended purpose. Thus by
definition "oral sex" is NOT sex. Because it's NOT sex, engaging
in "oral sex" cannot be considered adultery OR incest. Note that
by using the same logic, "anal sex" is not sex either.
Chapter 2 - Questions and Answers
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Q: What is your view on marriage and adultery?
A: I firmly believe that marriage is a sacred institution blessed by God.
A man and woman pledge their lives to one another "until death do you
part" (don't even get me started on some of the new wedding vows that
omit this!). I believe that this vow establishes a promise to be
faithful to your spouse for the rest of your life.
The key here is to define precisely what is meant by marriage and
adultery. According to my definition of "family" I believe that when you
marry someone you also "marry" their family. Family is EXTREMELY
important to me and is reflected in my definitions.
Let me make this clear - adultery is a sinful act against marriage. I do
not condone it nor do I ever intend to commit adultery. If my husband
ever committed adultery I'd neuter him first and then divorce him.
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Q: What do you mean by "someone outside your family"?
A: Marriage is more than just a relationship between a man and a woman.
Just as a husband and wife vow to be faithful to one another their entire
lives, in a healthy family the members support and love one another in
the same way. Admittedly this may be unfair in some people's eyes as
they had no choice about the matter (e.g. "I didn't marry my brother-in-
law"), but that's the way I believe God intended it to work.
Unfortunately, because of the self-will granted to us by God not everyone
follows God's plans for us and so in many families this closeness and
fidelity is missing.
When a family unit is truly in sync with God's plan the result is not
only an emotional bonding but a physical one as well. By this I mean not
just hugging and such but sexual. Most families have deviated from the
path set for them and in some cases taken a 180 degree turn. Because of
man's perversions this has resulted in cases where sexual relationships
are maintained yet the love and intimacy necessary to maintain the
respect and discipline needed are missing. Thus an imbalance is created
which is why the word "incest" has come to describe these perverted
families where children are abused and lives destroyed.
Fortunately there are families where belief in God, love, respect and
discipline combine to form a balanced union where sexual relationships
are just one aspect of the family dynamic. I'm fortunate to enjoy being
a part of such a family.
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Q: Why do you like to have sex with married men?
A: Marriage is a special relationship where love and respect by both
partners is vital. Personally, I do NOT condone cheating. Let me say
that again in a slightly different way.... I do NOT condone or wish to
promote adultery as I define it. Although in a perfect world men would
not cheat on their wives or vice versa, should a man choose to break
the oath he took with his wife before God then that's HIS decision and
HIS responsibility. I feel NO responsibility whatsoever for the
consequences he may face as the only way his wife would ever find out is
if he told her or he did something stupid like leave his e-mail open.
To be clear, I have no desire to hurt anyone or to cause them marital
problems. That someone is cheating demonstrates that the marital
problems are already there so if anything maybe getting it out of his
system with me will help. I like to think that having sex with me can
actually result in HELPING their marriage! In fact I've had several men
tell me that even just chatting with me, doing tributes, etc. has helped
renew their sexual interest in their wives. I wonder what their wives
would say if they knew the real reason why their husband was so horny
when he gets in bed with them?
I've had many men write me and ask my opinion on how to cheat on their
wives and my initial response is usually to encourage them NOT to do so.
Many men try to rationalize their behavior by claiming their wife isn't
interested in sex. All I have to say to that is, "it takes two".
For me having sex with a married man is far more an erotic experience
than simply something that is merely physically pleasurable. What I mean
is that while normally I would claim that sex is typically 80% emotional
and 20% physical, when doing it with a cheating husband those numbers
move to 95% emotional and 5% or less about the physical side of sex.
That puts it right on par with how I feel when I'm with my dad in terms
of numbers just to show you how powerful it is.
The reason for the heavy emphasis on the "emotional" aspects of sex is
that when a husband is fucking me and I feel his adulterous cock inside
of me, I love knowing that his clueless wife is sitting at home totally
unaware that her loyal husband is out enjoying sex with a younger woman.
It makes me feel really good as a woman to know that her supposedly
loving husband lusts for me so deeply that he's willing to violate his
most sacred vows to her. Think about it... He's literally willing to
sacrifice his marriage and family just for a single fleeting opportunity
to have sex with ME for just a few hours. How can anyone blame me for
feeling incredibly sexy and desirable in this situation? I'm sure your
ego would be boosted just as much if you were in my shoes.
It's not just during sex that it turns me on either. After he leaves I
will usually masturbate while thinking about him returning home and
facing his wife with his adulterous dick still coated with my pussy cum
as he kisses her goodnight and slips into bed beside her. I wonder if
when he says he loves her if he think about what he did with me? The
next time they make love, is it my pussy he remembers when he cums? When
his wife turns up her nose at the thought of oral sex does he wish I was
there to suck his cock again? Does he feel any guilt or remorse? Will
he ever be able to forget what he did with me or will I be a part of his
life for the rest of his days? Does he masturbate thinking about how
good it felt to fuck me? As you can see, it goes way beyond just the few
minutes or hours we spend together - for both of us.
One of my most memorable experiences was having sex with a husband while
he was on his cell phone with his wife. Just as I felt him start to
shoot his adulterous sperm inside my pussy I heard him telling his wife
that he loved her more than anything and couldn't wait to be back home
again with her. He kept repeating over and over how he loved her as he
came in me! As you might imagine, it wasn't his cock ejaculating in me
that made me cum so hard. It was how I imagined his wife smiling at
home, thinking that her supposedly loyal husband really loved her when
what he was really loving was the feel of my tight pussy clamping down on
his adulterous erection as he pumped me with the sperm that SHOULD have
been in her pussy instead!!
OK, so I realize that this may all seem a bit contradictory, confusing,
and maybe even a little hypocritical. It's a difficult concept to
explain yet hopefully if you think about it more then you'll understand
it's not really all that complicated. Remember that I honestly encourage
husbands to remain faithful to their wives and in a perfect world there
would be no married men running around begging to fuck me. However we
all know that's not the case so if a husband chooses to cheat on his wife
then it may as well be me as anyone else. One thing for sure though is
that I would NEVER want his wife to know about it, even if she deserves
it. I would feel tremendously guilty if I was the reason for a marriage
to fail.
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Q: Doesn't assisting a man to commit adultery make you feel guilty?
A: In a word... NO. If a man chooses to cheat on his wife then it's 100%
HIS decision and HIS responsibility. I don't put a gun to his head nor
force him to do anything. In addition, I don't feel any responsibility
for whatever consequences he may face since the only way his wife would
know about anything is if he told her or otherwise screwed up as I
certainly never would. Finally, it takes two to make a marriage work so
if the wife was satisfying her husband then maybe he wouldn't be out
looking for someone who can.
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Q: Do you want their wives to know?
A: No! I'm not at all interested in married three-somes unless there's
something special about it. Besides, if the wife knows about it and is
OK with it then what's the point? In those situations I may as well get
laid by a single guy!
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Q: Do you condone adultery?
A: Absolutely NOT! I believe strongly in the sanctity of marriage and I
sincerely wish that every marriage was strong and faithful. For better
or worse the simple fact is that most aren't. I have NO desire to do any
harm to a healthy marriage but when a man makes the decision to betray
his wife then obviously there are deep-rooted issues that didn't start
with me. So husbands please stay true to your wives! But if you can't
for some reason then look me up!
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Q: How do you feel about the husbands you have sex with?
A: Frankly I think in most cases any man who cheats on his wife has deep
character flaws that most likely extend beyond his willingness to break
his word. While I don't have to respect the man to enjoy being fucked
by him, I could never have anything to do long-term with a man who cheats
on his wife with me. This is one of the main reasons I never go out
with a married man twice, not to mention I have no desire to be someone's
mistress. There may be excellent reasons for rationalizing his behavior
but none that forgive it.
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Q: What would you do if your husband had sex with a woman like you behind
your back?
A: Easiest question of them all! I would neuter him, kick him out of the
house, and divorce him taking every cent he has! Fortunately I love my
husband and submit to his sexual needs. He knows that he's free to have
sex with anyone he wants so long as he doesn't cheat on me. Thus I'd
like to think there's no reason he would ever feel the need to cheat.
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Q: What do you NOT like about having sex with married men?
A: I would say that the only negative thing for me is that I can't
really respect a man who is a liar and an adulterer.
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Q: Once a man cheats, is he branded forever in your eyes?
A: Everyone makes mistakes and just because a man made a wrong decision
in the past doesn't mean he can't see the error in his ways, repent and
be forgiven. My goodness, isn't forgiveness the very core of
Christianity? I have no issues with a man who tells me that he once
cheated on his wife no matter many times he did so long as now he
realizes that he was wrong to do so.
Of course that all goes out the window the moment he fucks me. Once a
guy has fucked me, I really don't want anything to do with him again at
least from a purely sexual perspective. In most cases these are men I
know, usually from church, so I still have to interact with them
socially.
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Q: Would you ever be willing to have sex with a married man more than
once?
A: Thinking it over, the only way I could see this happening would be if
two conditions were met:
1. He would have to be a friend. I mean more than an on-line chat buddy.
We wouldn't necessarily have to date although that would be best.
Maybe we could just know each other in a platonic relationship such as
co-workers at church or something like that. The point is that I
would have to like being with him WITHOUT sex first.
2. His wife would have to consent. I don't mean join in and for goodness
sakes the LAST thing I want is a couple looking for a three-some. OK,
maybe one time but that's all. When I say consent I don't mean that
HE tells me she's OK with it. I mean SHE tells me she is and does so
face to face so I'm positive that she understands her husband is
going to be fucking me. In this type of situation I'd rather she not
be there when we have sex but I want her to know what her husband is
doing and agree with it.
As I said, both conditions would have to be satisfied and I imagine it's
the second one that would prove to be the major obstacle. As such, I
wouldn't start meeting a guy just in HOPES that the second condition
might someday miraculously happen. Even if both conditions are met I
would still have to really think it over and feel assured it was
something he wanted to do out of respect for me, not just to fuck a girl
half his age. Odds are it wouldn't happen anyways.
Granted, the odds of both conditions being met are pretty astronomical,
which is why I usually make the general statement that I only fuck
married guys once. However who knows what might happen in the future!!
THE END