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UPDATED LAST ON:  September 28, 2006

Hi there!

First I'd like to let you know that this page will be updated from time to time. Everytime I update it, I'll put the date near the top.

This section will probably sound like rambling because I am always eager to express myself to someone who may be interested in hearing about me. The reason I'm eager is because I'm very shy when it comes to breaking the ice. The fact you're visiting my site and especially that you're looking on this page to find out more about me...well...even though I haven't heard from you yet, consider the ice broken. I'm pleased to meet you. (Warm Smile)

I'm 33 years old, a Cancer who actually has a personality that matches most descriptions of the sign that I've read, and an INFP personality on the Meyers-Briggs personality type. That stands for Introverted iNtuitive Feeler Perceiver and that puts me in a category of less than 2% of all guys. It's the INFP personality that helps me to write erotica with an emotional & caring style.

I live in Canada, just south of Toronto in a city named Hamilton. It's quiet here, sometimes too quiet. (Grin)

I'm presently single. I wish that I had a couple of buttons that read "Single...and hating it!" as well as "Rejection Sucks". hehehe

The truth is that every woman with whom I've had a relationship, I met each of them online. This is because breaking the ice online is easier than walking up to someone. Those that I've had a relationship with really liked the way I look and have told me I should shoot my photographer and that they can't understand why I should be shy about my looks. But I am still self-conscious.

I've been writing since I was young. I started writing romantic poetry before I was twelve even though I didn't have the courage to ask a woman out until the end of highschool. That was mostly on purpose since I watched a lot of highschool movies and figured highschool girls were fickle...and I didn't want to get dumped just because someone else just got a car for his birthday. Yes, I feel foolish about that now.

For my erotica writing style, I stumbled across it when I first stumbled across cybersex. This is back before they had that name for it, back before the internet (yes there was online life before AOL)...just one modem connecting directly to another head-to-head. Back then even a few words would thrill me...simply because it was something totally new and I was catching the woman's intentions behind the sexy words and that is still the best part even today. But I thought to myself that if I was getting turned on by a few words every couple of minutes...how much more could I turn her on by writing every juicy detail and describing it fully.

Needless to say, the reaction was so extreme & positive that I knew I had found my style.  (Grin)

However on the rare occasions I can attract attentions in a chatroom amongst the flood of guys (a couple of times a year maybe)...then I cyber with the same level of detail that I write my stories. My favourite joke about that is that as an erotica author this makes me well-hung in the online world. But that fact also works in the other direction, meaning that my stories only take an hour or two to write because the style comes so naturally.

I just write things that I would actually do if I were in that situation, things I would say, look at, touch, lick... So I am the same person on this side of the screen that I am in my stories. I guess this makes my stories one big personal ad...someone pointed that out to me once. And I suppose it's true...that someone who enjoys my stories that much that they happily insert me into their fantasies...that they would like the real me as well because it's the same guy. I gave up pretending to be someone else online long before highschool.

Yes, for me there's no point & no satisfaction in putting on a mask to go online and go from Dr. Jekyl to become Mr. Hyde frolicking online. Besides, if someone gives me a compliment online, it's complimenting a genuine part of me so it sinks in and feels good. Whereas people who pretend online...well...instead of saying "You look so incredibly sexy!" you may as well tell them that their skills with Photoshop are great or that whatever site they found those sexy pics of someone else they have really good taste. See what I mean? Fake means nothing...so I'm genuine even when it leaves me exposed online.

Ummmm if you're still reading this far down through the rant then I encourage you to check out my blog (or ask me where it is). And most certainly I'd enjoy hearing from you. If that's not what you had in mind, then by all means you're still welcome to enjoy all of the stories I have available.  =)